We_ArE_VeNOM
Master Don Juan
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Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Gone into hiding? What's all that about? I knew it was the AT&T girl. I know she's expressed some "insecurity" about her figure, she gets upset about the "male gaze" apparently. I guess that's what happens when you're too sexy.That's the female from the AT&T commercials. She's gone into hiding in recent months...
Who dis?
People were picking on her for her boobs, then because of her support for Israel (she's Jewish). Not sure if she's doing the AT&T coms any longer.Gone into hiding? What's all that about? I knew it was the AT&T girl. I know she's expressed some "insecurity" about her figure, she gets upset about the "male gaze" apparently. I guess that's what happens when you're too sexy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Jesus! That dress, that smile, those eyes, those boobs, and especially those boobs!Can't find a 10, but this is close enough. At least she doesn't look like a total wh0re like a lot of the pics I've seen in this thread. She needs to throw that coffee away. I fvcking hate coffee breath.
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Jason Statham was in a relationship with Kelly Brook for about 7 years, starting when she was about 19yrs old. So he tapped them when they were at their perkiest. He was still bald then, but much less known and wealthy.Jesus! That dress, that smile, those eyes, those boobs, and especially those boobs!

She is, I literally just saw one like five seconds ago.People were picking on her for her boobs, then because of her support for Israel (she's Jewish). Not sure if she's doing the AT&T coms any longer.
Her face probably isn't a 10 but that outfit/style and body nearly are.Can't find a 10, but this is close enough. At least she doesn't look like a total wh0re like a lot of the pics I've seen in this thread. She needs to throw that coffee away. I fvcking hate coffee breath.
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You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I wouldn’t give her a 10 but she is nice looking.Katarra Parson.
Them titties stay looking succulent.
Classy, not trashy..and this is the type I'm looking for when I go hunting.
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Agreed. Nice looking lady. For me she is an 8.Her face probably isn't a 10 but that outfit/style and body nearly are.
B!tch is huge.
I wouldn’t give her a 10 but she is nice looking.
Agreed. Nice looking lady. For me she is an 8.
Love to see what both of you look like since this one is a bunker buster to both of you..Face is average and she is overweight, in my book she is fat.
She is "sexy" but she doesn't have style.
An 8 is a bunker buster? I consider 8 to be elite. She is beautiful.Love to see what both of you look like since this one is a bunker buster to both of you..
I mean sure, we can all look at what others consider a "10" and offer our own commentary.Face is average and she is overweight, in my book she is fat.
Well, based on her music and wardrobe (from vids and pics), her style is within the range of "Neo-soul", which is also something I tend to like (Lauryn Hill, Jill Scott, Erykah Badu, India Arie).She is "sexy" but she doesn't have style.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I would rather have her than these petite, anorexic lookin b!tches you guys are on here ogling over.B!tch is huge.
To each his own.I wouldn’t give her a 10 but she is nice looking.
if she didnt have makeup would she still be a 10?This is the closest I've seen to a 10 in a good while
She is not too skinny and not too fat. Keeping that perfect middle zone will be difficult as she ages though. I can see why you say she was a ten. If she was latina, north african or turkish I would say perfect 10 lolol.Can't find a 10, but this is close enough. At least she doesn't look like a total wh0re like a lot of the pics I've seen in this thread. She needs to throw that coffee away. I fvcking hate coffee breath.
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.