"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How do I treat a girl like this?

GoodOne123

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Basically I met a girl last week by dancing with her on a club dancefloor.

No talking. We made out for 45 minutes straight. I fingered her for a while, grabbed her tiits etc. She grabbed my d.

I got her number before her friend dragged her away.

I played it cool and texted her saying I hope to see her again. She said she hopes so too. I said I will text her sometime to see what shes up to.

It's been a few days. I currently have a cold so I can't ask her out yet.

How do I treat a girl that I fingered like that? Do I take her for drinks? Or do I just say I want to come over to her house?

(Btw I don't have my own place)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Southbound29

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Dude, You fingered her and she responded positively to your texts. You got the green light. Only thing missing is a set of runway lights guiding you to her pu$$y. Just play it cool, text her sparingly until you get over your cold then make plans for a quick drink then bang.

As far as where you can bang her, If you play it right you could hang her behind a dumpter and she would be just as happy.
 

devilkingx2

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Basically I met a girl last week by dancing with her on a club dancefloor.

No talking. We made out for 45 minutes straight. I fingered her for a while, grabbed her tiits etc. She grabbed my d.

I got her number before her friend dragged her away.

I played it cool and texted her saying I hope to see her again. She said she hopes so too. I said I will text her sometime to see what shes up to.

It's been a few days. I currently have a cold so I can't ask her out yet.

How do I treat a girl that I fingered like that? Do I take her for drinks? Or do I just say I want to come over to her house?

(Btw I don't have my own place)
go for drinks since it may be seen as rude to invite yourself to someone's house
 
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