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dating advice for men

  1. B

    I am really struggling to get girls - would like new ideas.

    Hi Guys, I've really been struggling to get any girls after literally a tonne of effort and at this point I am starting to run out of ideas. I've only used online channels (95%) like dating apps (muzzmatch 250 matches) and Instagram where I have more than 2,150 followers with 1630 following and...
  2. W

    Took a whole day to respond if she wanted to hang out

    I’m 27 average looking man who likes writing code for a living. I met this girl on a solo day hike where we tagged along till the summit and clicked a few pictures. We exchanged numbers to share the pictures. She is a resident doctor at a hospital in the city and is currently doing her...
  3. M

    Dating coach

    hi guys! so this is my first post after reading a lot of your posts.... thanks to everyone for all these great comments and advices, it has really helped me a lot! unfortunately, i do notice that i have a sticking point that i just cannot beat. i just notice that when i meet a girl that i am...
  4. Sir Ike

    A hungry for knowledge high-schooler searching for advice

    Hi! I'm from Colombia and I've been reading about the seduction community and a few books but I thought asking for advice wouldn't hurt me. I have read The Game, The Mystery Method and currently reading The Rational Male, but I think that the techniques that are taught in the first two books...
  5. V

    30-something AM dating outside of his culture; Is marriage the answer?

    Hi all, First time posting here after reading The Rationale Male by Rollo, although I may have to re-read it multiple, multiple times to really let the ideas and concepts really sink in. Other dating books I've read include "Models" by Mark Manson (one of my favorites), I've skimmed through...
  6. G

    Need advice on what to do next

    Hello, everyone! I'm a young guy (19) and I've been reading everyone's advice and tips in here, which I thank you all for. I have been reading "The Rational Male" which led me to Sosuave. Anyways, enough of that. I met this girl through Instagram and she is from Argentina (she's going to...
  7. powersize

    What is the stuff you wish you knew in your 20s that you know now?

    Hey folks, I am in my mid 20s and wondering what is the stuff you will you knew in my age when it comes to dating and relationships? Any tips or tricks are highly appreciated
  8. B

    Going on a 2 week trip after first date, need some advice

    I went on a date with a girl I met on a dating app, it went well, k-closed and got confirmation that she wants a second date. Now I’m leaving on a two week trip and I won’t be able to go on another date till I get back. I’m wondering what’s the best way to play this. 1. Should I suggest we go...
  9. S

    Your opinions on MGTOW/Red Pill?

    Hi guys. Recently, I have been really anxious and lost from so many mgtow/red pill videos I have seen. I have heard so many horror stories about relationships, "truths" about female nature (hypergamy, women don't actually care about you unless you can provide them something, etc.) And that game...
  10. J

    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    Hi, I am a 22 yr old college student and a couple of months ago I met a girl online and we really hit off. I thought this was someone I would like to know better. We met a few times, at no point it felt that any of us had to drag the conversation, we were explicit with our liking for each other...
  11. GeezerBub

    So ummm...Not so sure anymore.

    Hello peopulz... So tomorrow I'm to meet someone I've been chatting with on OKC with for a bit and all is well until she sends me the following... "Wait, yeah, no there's no way my anxiety is chill with meeting another stranger. If we do meet, I'd like to at least not have to pretend to be...
  12. B

    3 dates, two hookups, now what

    First date (on a Thursday) was patio drinks then a walk outdoors on a warm summer evening. Holding hands on the walk, hugging, and the date ending with her suggesting a second date on Sunday. She texts me 30-45 mins after, thanking for the walk, saying I am adorable, and that she is really glad...
  13. Von

    LTR/GF reporting back to me that she's being ''hit'' and he's a ''creep''

    Hey DJ, You all know I am in a LTR of 1.5 years. All stuff are going well and escalating. My LTR was doing a night shift at her medical job. So she finishs around between 5am and 10am. At 6am, she texted this (copy-pasted) LTR at 6am: ''A creep is sweet talking me. The trouble is, I...
  14. N


    let's start the tale , My dad is Asian and My mother black . ' Dark ' despite being fair at birth i am dark too - because she made me ? how by using oil and tanning me all these years , for that i had to face racism growing up in Asian society and developing an inferiority complex - that's a...
  15. Von

    What do women want?

    That's soo funny... and quite good... He even found the reason of Fifthy Shade of Grey lol
  16. stillsearching78

    Can anyone recommend a good international matchmaking site?

    I’m in my early 40’s and still no luck in finding my good match. So I’ve decided to take things to the next level-- meet foreign tours. Most of you are probably wondering what I meant by “next level” but what I’m trying to say is… going for a route that is considered unconventional. I’ve...
  17. Von

    Why are you dating me?

    The question is the thread title. I got that question from each of my LTR. 3 LTR, 3 different girl (in all aspect), same question, Same answer: Me: Why you are dating me? Her: Cause you know how to fight Or Her: Von, I am dating you cause you know how to fight -- So what you think they...
  18. GoodOne123

    How do I treat a girl like this?

    Basically I met a girl last week by dancing with her on a club dancefloor. No talking. We made out for 45 minutes straight. I fingered her for a while, grabbed her tiits etc. She grabbed my d. I got her number before her friend dragged her away. I played it cool and texted her saying I hope...
  19. D

    Dating Troubles

    Hello my fellow Dons, womanizers, and lady killas, I have a little problem. I will try to keep this as short as possible. So, I have been dating/ seeing this girl for about 2 1/2 months. We have gone on a total of 4 dates, we've slept together, and we have expressed mutual feeling for each...
  20. C

    Dating Troubles

    Hello Fellow Dons, Manly Men, and lady killahs, So I have a little problem on my hands. Well, let me start from the beginning. So I have been dating this girl for a couple months, we have gone on 4 dates and have hung out on numerous occasions, but last week when she told me she liked me I...