dating advice for men

  1. J

    How to handle a girl who is trying to slide out?

    Hi, I am a 22 yr old college student and a couple of months ago I met a girl online and we really hit off. I thought this was someone I would like to know better. We met a few times, at no point it felt that any of us had to drag the conversation, we were explicit with our liking for each other...
  2. GeezerBub

    So ummm...Not so sure anymore.

    Hello peopulz... So tomorrow I'm to meet someone I've been chatting with on OKC with for a bit and all is well until she sends me the following... "Wait, yeah, no there's no way my anxiety is chill with meeting another stranger. If we do meet, I'd like to at least not have to pretend to be...
  3. B

    3 dates, two hookups, now what

    First date (on a Thursday) was patio drinks then a walk outdoors on a warm summer evening. Holding hands on the walk, hugging, and the date ending with her suggesting a second date on Sunday. She texts me 30-45 mins after, thanking for the walk, saying I am adorable, and that she is really glad...
  4. Von

    LTR/GF reporting back to me that she's being ''hit'' and he's a ''creep''

    Hey DJ, You all know I am in a LTR of 1.5 years. All stuff are going well and escalating. My LTR was doing a night shift at her medical job. So she finishs around between 5am and 10am. At 6am, she texted this (copy-pasted) LTR at 6am: ''A creep is sweet talking me. The trouble is, I...
  5. N

    HOW DO I DEAL WITH FEMINIST, RELIGIOUS, MANIPULATIVE,EMOTIONALLY WRECKED MOTHER ?

    let's start the tale , My dad is Asian and My mother black . ' Dark ' despite being fair at birth i am dark too - because she made me ? how by using oil and tanning me all these years , for that i had to face racism growing up in Asian society and developing an inferiority complex - that's a...
  6. Von

    What do women want?

    That's soo funny... and quite good... He even found the reason of Fifthy Shade of Grey lol
  7. stillsearching78

    Can anyone recommend a good international matchmaking site?

    I’m in my early 40’s and still no luck in finding my good match. So I’ve decided to take things to the next level-- meet foreign tours. Most of you are probably wondering what I meant by “next level” but what I’m trying to say is… going for a route that is considered unconventional. I’ve...
  8. Von

    Why are you dating me?

    The question is the thread title. I got that question from each of my LTR. 3 LTR, 3 different girl (in all aspect), same question, Same answer: Me: Why you are dating me? Her: Cause you know how to fight Or Her: Von, I am dating you cause you know how to fight -- So what you think they...
  9. GoodOne123

    How do I treat a girl like this?

    Basically I met a girl last week by dancing with her on a club dancefloor. No talking. We made out for 45 minutes straight. I fingered her for a while, grabbed her tiits etc. She grabbed my d. I got her number before her friend dragged her away. I played it cool and texted her saying I hope...
  10. D

    Dating Troubles

    Hello my fellow Dons, womanizers, and lady killas, I have a little problem. I will try to keep this as short as possible. So, I have been dating/ seeing this girl for about 2 1/2 months. We have gone on a total of 4 dates, we've slept together, and we have expressed mutual feeling for each...
  11. C

    Dating Troubles

    Hello Fellow Dons, Manly Men, and lady killahs, So I have a little problem on my hands. Well, let me start from the beginning. So I have been dating this girl for a couple months, we have gone on 4 dates and have hung out on numerous occasions, but last week when she told me she liked me I...
  12. C

    Am I ever going to have a good relationship?

    Hello fellow dudes, Dons, and womanizers, Am I ever going to have a good relationship? Or is it going to be a constant struggle of who gives less of a **** about the other person? Is there something as a mutually loving relationship? Or is it some fantasy Disney story we were breastfed when...
  13. C

    How to know if you have her attention

    Quick question to all the Dons out there, How do you get a girl to be 100% into you? And when do you know if this girl is the one for you? Also is it bad to date a girl who is constantly saying other guys are hot (is she just trying to be flirty ? or is she telling me I should end it?)\...
  14. C

    Dating troubles

    Hello fellow Dons, I am currently in a relationship with a girl I am crazy about. She is fun, exciting, and edgy. I love it. But the issue is that she seems like she has a bunch of underlying emotional issues. What I mean when I say this is, the typical my "parents didn't pay attention to...
  15. GoodOne123

    Confused By Recent Experiences

    Following my previous thread, I have made this thread to share my recent experiences in going out at night and trying to improve my game. To summarise my previous thread I aim to gain more confidence, get the dating game all figured out, and end my frustrations. My main assets are my looks and...
  16. D

    Don't know what to do or how to act around her?

    This girl used to or I think had attraction towards me. She used to give me smirks, gaze in my eyes, etc each time we saw each other in class or in the hallways and it was only to me. I never approach her until she lost interest and acted cold. I ask her out last summer through text and got...
  17. C

    Is it possible to regingite attraction/intrest with this girl?

    I messed up my chance to be with this cute girl back in community college. I'm positive she was interested since the first time i lay eyes on her, and she respond with behaviors such as she would gaze to my eyes, looking down when we gaze, giving smirks, looking from afar, and acting funny with...
  18. C

    Should I talk to this girl still?

    This one girl used to like me or appear to like me at one point but couldnt tell if she was crushing or being nice. She gave signs such as long eye contact and at times until she look down, half smiles, glances, and stares from afar. etc I made her wait a year. I know I mess up. I found her on...
  19. C

    Has anyone had this experience before? If so what did you do?

    This one girl used to like me or appear to like me at one point but couldnt tell if she was crushing or being nice. She gave signs such as long eye contact and at times until she look down, half smiles, glances, and stares from afar. etc I made her wait a year. I know I mess up. I found her on...
  20. Victory Unlimited

    Objective: Victory Unlimited gives Free eBook to the So Suave Soldiers!

    Yo Troops! I trust that today is a day that finds you well. As a So Suave Veteran for well over a Decade now, I wanted to say "Thank You" to all of you soldiers (past and present) who have fought with me in my war to help men become better men TODAY than they were yesterday! So as a way of...
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