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Maybe it's because I'm not as needy as you are.
Dude...you've been hand-delivered a woman more than a decade younger than you who is basically offering herself on a platter to you...and you disqualify her because you want to dance...

Like, what are we doing here? Is this SoSuave or SoSalsa?
 

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I’m beginning to believe Plinco has Narcissistic Personality Disorder or Borderline Personality Disorder. It fits when reading his posts.
Could be but also could be since his divorce some sort of fear of intimacy including sexual intimacy.

I mean no disrespect @Plinco but your reasoning sounds like a bunch of excuses and very poor ones. A lot of assumptions and you had never even met her and barely talked with her!

I didn't view her texts as "too mature" in fact they were quite playful and flirty!

I also didn't view her as "coming on too strong," this is avoidance on your part but why?

What are you afraid of? Do you even know?
 
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Could be but also could be since his divorce some sort of fear of intimacy including sexual intimacy.

I mean no disrespect @Plinco but your reasoning sounds like a bunch of excuses and very poor ones. A lot of assumptions and you had never even met her!

I didn't view her texts as "too mature" in fact they were quite playful and flirty!

I also didn't view her as "coming on too strong," this is avoidance on your part but why?

What are you afraid of? Do you even know?
One of the traits of Borderline Personality Disorder is a distorted sense of reality. We all agree this girl wants him but he doesn't see it that way and it’s driving us up a wall. We’ve all been following his journey and he’s been consistently detached from reality. Case closed you guys.
 

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We all agree this girl wants him but he doesn't see it that way
^I think he does see it, that's the problem! He sees it but he fears it, he is afraid of it. He talks a good game but when faced with the reality of it versus the fantasy, he looks for BS excuses to avoid it.

I mean seriously, to reject a compliant woman, 12 years younger, attractive (a 6 is decently attractive to most men) pretty much a sure thing because she wanted to have a drink instead of going dancing?

Really dude? Come on now. :rolleyes:
 
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For me she's somewhat attractive but through this conversation I feel like I'm being treated like an object.
This part here makes me believe he does have BPD. The conversation seemed fine and he somehow thinks he’s being treated like an object? Wtf? He’s delusional.
 
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He talks a good game but when faced with the reality of it versus the fantasy, he looks for BS excuses to avoid it.
Exactly what I said earlier about distorted reality of people with BPD. When faced with reality of it versus fantasy…. He doesn’t live in reality.
 
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