Feel Free To Criticize My Texting Game

[Plinco]

These hurt to read...

Maybe it's because I'm not as needy as you are.

 

[BPH]

Maybe it's because I'm not as needy as you are.

Dude...you've been hand-delivered a woman more than a decade younger than you who is basically offering herself on a platter to you...and you disqualify her because you want to dance...

Like, what are we doing here? Is this SoSuave or SoSalsa?

 

[retardedautist2020]

I’m beginning to believe Plinco has Narcissistic Personality Disorder or Borderline Personality Disorder. It fits when reading his posts.

 

[Sega Genesis]

I’m beginning to believe Plinco has Narcissistic Personality Disorder or Borderline Personality Disorder. It fits when reading his posts.

Could be but also could be since his divorce some sort of fear of intimacy including sexual intimacy.

I mean no disrespect @Plinco but your reasoning sounds like a bunch of excuses and very poor ones. A lot of assumptions and you had never even met her and barely talked with her!

I didn't view her texts as "too mature" in fact they were quite playful and flirty!

I also didn't view her as "coming on too strong," this is avoidance on your part but why?

What are you afraid of? Do you even know?

 

[retardedautist2020]

Could be but also could be since his divorce some sort of fear of intimacy including sexual intimacy.

I mean no disrespect @Plinco but your reasoning sounds like a bunch of excuses and very poor ones. A lot of assumptions and you had never even met her!

I didn't view her texts as "too mature" in fact they were quite playful and flirty!

I also didn't view her as "coming on too strong," this is avoidance on your part but why?

What are you afraid of? Do you even know?

One of the traits of Borderline Personality Disorder is a distorted sense of reality. We all agree this girl wants him but he doesn't see it that way and it’s driving us up a wall. We’ve all been following his journey and he’s been consistently detached from reality. Case closed you guys.

 

[Sega Genesis]

We all agree this girl wants him but he doesn't see it that way

^I think he does see it, that's the problem! He sees it but he fears it, he is afraid of it. He talks a good game but when faced with the reality of it versus the fantasy, he looks for BS excuses to avoid it.

I mean seriously, to reject a compliant woman, 12 years younger, attractive (a 6 is decently attractive to most men) pretty much a sure thing because she wanted to have a drink instead of going dancing?

Really dude? Come on now.

 

[retardedautist2020]

For me she's somewhat attractive but through this conversation I feel like I'm being treated like an object.

This part here makes me believe he does have BPD. The conversation seemed fine and he somehow thinks he’s being treated like an object? Wtf? He’s delusional.

 

[retardedautist2020]

He talks a good game but when faced with the reality of it versus the fantasy, he looks for BS excuses to avoid it.

Exactly what I said earlier about distorted reality of people with BPD. When faced with reality of it versus fantasy…. He doesn’t live in reality.

 

[Plinco]

^I think he does see it, that's the problem! He sees it but he fears it, he is afraid of it. He talks a good game but when faced with the reality of it versus the fantasy, he looks for BS excuses to avoid it.

If that's true, then why did I have no problem getting intimate with this girl?

I almost got laid tonight

I just came home and there's a lot to digest here. So there's this really cute girl I met on tinder and we've been chatting and finally met up tonight. To make a long story short, she's totally into it and she wants to go back to her place since it was closer than where I live. That was a...

www.sosuave.net

Maybe it's because I have to like the girl first. Right?

I mean seriously, to reject a compliant woman, 12 years younger, attractive (a 6 is decently attractive to most men) pretty much a sure thing because she wanted to have a drink instead of going dancing?

Really dude? Come on now.

That doesn't make her entitled to have me. Everyone has their preferences and I generally like my women a lot younger than her.

I’m beginning to believe Plinco has Narcissistic Personality Disorder or Borderline Personality Disorder. It fits when reading his posts.

Imagine having inner game so tight that it spins some of you people's hamster wheels. Has it occurred to you (or any of you) that I'm not as needy as you are and labeling me is your ego defense at work?

 

[Sega Genesis]

@Plinco I didn't see the earlier thread about banging a girl half your age for 10 seconds at her family's home (no judgment about that you're entitled to prefer young girls as long as they're of legal age).

However with this girl, your reasoning/excuses were quite bizarre given you had never met her or barely spoke with her.

Like her wanting a drink instead of dancing? You gotta know that was a silly excuse along with the others (i.e. sounding "too mature?). Dude you are 42, and she didn't even, her messages were flirty and playful like a young girl.

Ok you didn't find her pictures attractive enough, she was a 6? That's fair but initially you showed interest in meeting her, you even double texted about getting together!

Why do that if you didn't find her pictures attractive?

I dunno it just seemed in this instance like you were ruining away (avoiding) versus wanting to move towards by at least meeting the girl, something low key and light.

Pictures don't always tell the whole story, you might have met and found her more attractive in person and her energy intriguing. Especially considering you're not exactly swimming with options.

It just seemed like you avoided when it became real (after showing interest when it was fantasy), that's why I posted what I did.

Just sounds really off to me, that's all but good luck!

 

[BackInTheGame78]

This part here makes me believe he does have BPD. The conversation seemed fine and he somehow thinks he’s being treated like an object? Wtf? He’s delusional.

She could treat me like an object and I would make sure she chokes on my object

 

[BackInTheGame78]

@Plinco I didn't see the earlier thread about banging a girl half your age for 10 seconds at her family's home (no judgment about that you're entitled to prefer young girls as long as they're of legal age).

However with this girl, your reasoning/excuses were quite bizarre given you had never met her or barely spoke with her.

Like her wanting a drink instead of dancing? You gotta know that was a silly excuse along with the others (i.e. sounding "too mature?). Dude you are 42, and she didn't even, her messages were flirty and playful like a young girl.

Ok you didn't find her pictures attractive enough, she was a 6? That's fair but initially you showed interest in meeting her, you even double texted about getting together!

Why do that if you didn't find her pictures attractive?

I dunno it just seemed in this instance like you were ruining away (avoiding) versus wanting to move towards by at least meeting the girl, something low key and light.

Pictures don't always tell the whole story, you might have met and found her more attractive in person and her energy intriguing. Especially considering you're not exactly swimming with options.

It just seemed like you avoided when it became real (after showing interest when it was fantasy), that's why I posted what I did.

Just sounds really off to me, that's all but good luck!

Example of why I find it so easy to meet women on OLD, this is what they deal with routinely. Also probably explains why they thank me for being "normal" so often

 

[retardedautist2020]

Imagine having inner game so tight that it spins some of you people's hamster wheels. Has it occurred to you (or any of you) that I'm not as needy as you are and labeling me is your ego defense at work?

I’ve unfortunately grown up around people with Borderline Personality Disorder and have learned how to spot it. It took me longer with you since this was online. Again, accusing BPH and I of being needy? Delusional.