Great job!Was at the gym yesterday and there were HB's everyfvckingwhere. I had my eye on a couple, one I'd seen around a couple times. But I missed her. Tried to catch her on her way out but shawty was quick.
Anyways I figured I should keep my momentum going and approached her as she was on her way out. Lol I wish the circumstances were better but every time I saw either of them they were occupied exercising and I'm not about to interrupt someone's gains, I would be pissed personally. So I tapped her elbow and she turned around. Just asked her her name. Then what she was working out. Then we talked for a while about where she's from, what she does, you know the deal. So I said lemme get your number so I can get to know you a little more. She giggled and gave it to me. The convo was good, she laughed a lot and didn't seem rushed to leave.
She came back in and was stretching. And she was DEEP in those stretches. Banging body. I decided to build more rapport as I was done with my workout at that point and told her she was gonna teach me how to get stretchy. She complied. I snuck in some playful kino and told her one of the stretches was more fun to watch than to do with a smirk. She ate it up.
As we were talking, we found more things in common. I suggested we go dancing as we're both interested in salsa and she was like "yeah!". Lil more chitchat. Hugged her goodbye.
She's bad so I find myself wanting to act fast on getting the date. But I'll play it cool. Currently debating whether to call tomorrow night or early next week. I'll let my responsibilities be the deciding factor. If she's interested, she'll remember me and be happy to go out. If she's not, good thing I prioritized.
Haven't finished the readings yet but this week is focused on starting conversations with strangers. Had a few this morning...."
Where can I find this boot camp you're reading? I've looked all over the site to no avail. Hope it's paying dividends for you!
Did you know a woman can be totally UN-ATTRACTED to you...
And she'll still sleep with you?
If you've ever seen a girl go home with some asshole she didn't even LIKE, you know this is true.
But how is this possible?
Because deep inside her brain, sexual desire has nothing to do with what you LOOK like...
And everything to do with how you make her FEEL.
Matt Cook knows this all too well.
Matt is a nice guy... but he steals women from JERKS all the time.
In this free video training below, he'll show you how he does it:
Much thanks! I will read through and decide what to do. Good luck with finals.
Two questions, when do you think you'll be a real DJ'er ? After 100 approaches ?Approached a girl in the ole stomping grounds, the dining hall. Been going there more since I'm doing one meal a day and eating a massive amount at once so it's worth it.
Anyways, I complimented her pants and asked where she got them. She said they were 'hand-me-downs from my sister, sorry'. Lmao girl I don't want your pants. I want to get in your pants. She was thick and buuusty. She didn't stop moving while she was talking and I said 'okay cool' and went to take a dump.
I finished my next plate and caught her on the way out. I said 'Hey.. I was actually just trying to ask your name'. She told me her name and some very one-sided (me), rushed (her) small talk ensued. She ejected from the conversation and said she had to go. I should've asked for her number to seal to deal on this here rejection but that's one for the books.
Rejections: 3 down, 7 to go.
I don't have any expectation of 'when' I'll be what I define to be a true DJ. I'm not really worried about how long it will take to get there. I'm enjoying the process for now. But when I am there, I'll know because I'll truly put myself as priority and won't let the game phase me. I'll just play it. Outcome independence, masculine frame, etc. These are all things that will just simply be when I am a DJ. But right now, they are things I have to put effort towards and that's fine.Two questions, when do you think you'll be a real DJ'er ? After 100 approaches ?
And why only 3 rejections ?
Approached a chick today, went really bad but what to do. We learn but it was very beta. It felt beta. Maybe she didn't think it was beta, maybe just cringy but oh well.
Same boat here, jeez mystery made it so easy.I don't have any expectation of 'when' I'll be what I define to be a true DJ. I'm not really worried about how long it will take to get there. I'm enjoying the process for now. But when I am there, I'll know because I'll truly put myself as priority and won't let the game phase me. I'll just play it. Outcome independence, masculine frame, etc. These are all things that will just simply be when I am a DJ. But right now, they are things I have to put effort towards and that's fine.
Are you asking why I only have 3 or if I am stopping at 3? I'm focused on school. Approaching when I can. I am literally so busy that sometimes I'll notice 5 attractive girls but not be able to speak to any of them. And that's fine, women aren't my purpose. School is. That's pretty DJ if you ask me.
I approach whenever I am ready and see a window to go so. If they are interested doing something and I am too then I go for it.I mean its good that you are chatting but where do you ask their number, on the spot between sets or when you see them exiting the gym/heading to lockers ?
Personally I do it as exiting, , tried asking for a chick for coffee in the gym but got rejected once. I approached a chick once on the spot but somehow we talked and talked and didn't ask the number but that was way before, like a year before.
Some guys say gym is temple blah blah but its like those girls who say don't hit on sale workers because they have to be nice. If you like a girl why not approach right ? Same thing with girls with boyfriends, you're like why approach you'll get rejected so you play the shot in your head already and avoid the "getting after it". I need to chill somehow but I just can't, I feel very 'rigid' those days. I'll work on it.
I kind of wanted to approach several chicks today but got so self aware somehow after this last one. I can't maintain eye contact because I know if I see them, she'll lose interest if I don't approach. This happened with that last one, Somehow you know when you have an exam coming up, your stomachs acting weird because of it, somehow thinking about approaching gives me the same thing. I'll try tomorrow but I don't like where this is going.
Yeah I like Nerdlove's stuff! It's pretty cool. I learned a lot from him for sure. I'm more using AMS' Game these cause I wanna fvck these hoes and toss them to the side, Nerdlove isn't really about that lol. But I have learned and continue to learn a lot from him, and I can definitely relate to him@nicksaiz65 I peeped an article from ya boi Nerdlove on cold approaching.
I find the biggest issue I have is that I see a beautiful girl like every 5 minutes but I don't have anything to say about her/the environment so I freeze. Couple that with her seemingly not noticing me (no eye contact) and I'm like a fish out of ehater. But I like the simplicity of what he's written here, and I think I'll use it as my 'pick up line', if you will.
“You seem like you’re cool… are you friendly? Cool, my name is…”. It’s short, simple and establishes early on that you’re interested in her specifically. It can be polarizing – after all, you’re basically asking her to make a judgement right away as to whether she wants to talk to you – but it also means you find out very quickly whether or not she’s available, which means you spend less time on metaphorical dead-ends. Speaking for myself, I prefer finding out early on whether or not someone I’m interested in dating or sleeping with is unavailable or uninterested; it means I’m not wasting my time trying to chase something that will never happen.
AMS posted a video today about seduction and how there's no wrong way. Made me think of your posts.Yeah I like Nerdlove's stuff! It's pretty cool. I learned a lot from him for sure. I'm more using AMS' Game these cause I wanna fvck these hoes and toss them to the side, Nerdlove isn't really about that lol. But I have learned and continue to learn a lot from him, and I can definitely relate to him