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The problem is I see lots of girls in a setting, and I just want to game them all, they seem all hot to me and I want to game them but the way I noticed is in my town, is that I don't like nightclubs. I can go to uni bars but its lit once a month, and all the other days its like a nerd place. Not even a ladies nightout. Tinder is ok but I need photos and its winter, so thats going to wait. I see hot chicks studying but thats it, and I can't approach a lot in the library, nor can I stand outside somewhere because 2-3 approaches in a place and then it starts to get awry you get noticed big time. I think. Confused how can I increase my approaches ? Going to city is one option but thats not everyday and I have no idea if I should hit the clubs/or local places like parks/stores. Not sure about it all.
What do you like to do?

I mean the boot camp kind of encourages you to go somewhere specifically to meet women. But in my opinion, that's a boot camp exclusive thing. You're only doing that so you can force yourself out of your comfort zone in a very specific way. Once you've gotten the hang of that, you should be meeting women at places where you're doing something you enjoy. Obviously some places lend themselves to meeting women more than others, so... what do you like to do? Or what do you want to try?
 
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What do you like to do?

I mean the boot camp kind of encourages you to go somewhere specifically to meet women. But in my opinion, that's a boot camp exclusive thing. You're only doing that so you can force yourself out of your comfort zone in a very specific way. Once you've gotten the hang of that, you should be meeting women at places where you're doing something you enjoy. Obviously some places lend themselves to meeting women more than others, so... what do you like to do? Or what do you want to try?
Idk just more opportunities where i can find girls that could be my gf’s as opposed to one time girls.
 

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Idk just more opportunities where i can find girls that could be my gf’s as opposed to one time girls.
You're not answering the question though... I asked what you like to do. If you don't know, figure it out.

You can meet women anywhere.
 

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You're not answering the question though... I asked what you like to do. If you don't know, figure it out.

You can meet women anywhere.
Oh I didn’t notice the question. I like photography, literature, drama, (working out?), lean but never into bulky, languages. Theres also certain confidence issues that don’t seem to shake off, maybe I need more time to let myself grow.
I’ve grown alot over this year only so thats good .
 
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Oh I didn’t notice the question. I like photography, literature, drama, (working out?), lean but never into bulky, languages. Theres also certain confidence issues that don’t seem to shake off, maybe I need more time to let myself grow.
I’ve grown alot over this year only so thats good .
So meet women doing those things.

Confidence improves with increased experiences and successes.
 
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So meet women doing those things.

Confidence improves with increased experiences and successes.
It does seem easier than it sounds. I hate to rant but my major is like sparring with mike tyson. The days after Im done with class, I have no energy and the days I have class, I play catch up. Major takes a big chunk of my time and I just don’t want to quit because I’ll be in slums if I don’t stick with it, but once I have a major, its more than enough to get any job (artistic/journalistic) because most jobs want a degree.

I wanted to take a workshop this weekend in photography but if I do its like from morning till evening. Two days on the weekends. The minus is I’ll be behind on studying. So thats my bear trap.

I do like studying though but I want a social life but I have no idea how to get there. Seems uncharted territory for me personally.
 

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It does seem easier than it sounds. I hate to rant but my major is like sparring with mike tyson. The days after Im done with class, I have no energy and the days I have class, I play catch up. Major takes a big chunk of my time and I just don’t want to quit because I’ll be in slums if I don’t stick with it, but once I have a major, its more than enough to get any job (artistic/journalistic) because most jobs want a degree.

I wanted to take a workshop this weekend in photography but if I do its like from morning till evening. Two days on the weekends. The minus is I’ll be behind on studying. So thats my bear trap.

I do like studying though but I want a social life but I have no idea how to get there. Seems uncharted territory for me personally.
You're preaching to the choir man. What's your point in saying that though? Life's hard. So what? What are you going to do about it? This is the same thing we've been telling Nick in his journal and it seems you feel it doesn't apply to you. Why is that?

So you have all this stuff that you say you like to do, but you don't know how to have a social life. How can this be the case? Sure. Time is finite. But you can figure out how to make the most out of finite bounds, that's what we do as science majors after all, right?
 
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You're preaching to the choir man. What's your point in saying that though? Life's hard. So what? What are you going to do about it? This is the same thing we've been telling Nick in his journal and it seems you feel it doesn't apply to you. Why is that?

So you have all this stuff that you say you like to do, but you don't know how to have a social life. How can this be the case? Sure. Time is finite. But you can figure out how to make the most out of finite bounds, that's what we do as science majors after all, right?
Right, this is all correct.

Approached another chick, situational opener but she kept moving, she really wasn't interested so I didn't force it. Just talked, worked on being social. Got better by 1%.

Texting, thats it, from now on, I think I got the obvious. When you are good with words, you can text and banter. Provided you tease a bit and then go closing, thats the essence of text game.

btw Growingpains do you follow RSD tyler ?
 
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Right, this is all correct.

Approached another chick, situational opener but she kept moving, she really wasn't interested so I didn't force it. Just talked, worked on being social. Got better by 1%.

Texting, thats it, from now on, I think I got the obvious. When you are good with words, you can text and banter. Provided you tease a bit and then go closing, thats the essence of text game.

btw Growingpains do you follow RSD tyler ?
You're saying you're only going to text girls? I'm confused.

No I don't. I watch AMS and read posts on here.
 
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You're saying you're only going to text girls? I'm confused.

No I don't. I watch AMS and read posts on here.
No I meant when I’ll get future numbers, I am going to try to text heavily as an experiment. Thing is, if a girl likes you, she’ll text back. And if a girl doesn’t want to do anything with you, she won’t text much at all. Not going to be penpals but a few teases and banter should be ok. Anyways its situational, if it feels right, i’ll be doing it, and if not, then not.
 
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No I meant when I’ll get future numbers, I am going to try to text heavily as an experiment. Thing is, if a girl likes you, she’ll text back. And if a girl doesn’t want to do anything with you, she won’t text much at all. Not going to be penpals but a few teases and banter should be ok. Anyways its situational, if it feels right, i’ll be doing it, and if not, then not.
Ah okay. Nick had a thread about this. Texting contradictions I believe. Best reply I saw in there said something along the lines of: not texting cant really lower her interest but texting can. But like you said, it's situational.

Rejection 7/10: Chatted up a girl I met briefly earlier this year. At that time the conversation was one-sided so I ejected early. This time she was still asking me things.

Anyways, I saw her at the gym again and asked for the number after about 5 mins of playful convo. She said I have a boyfriend. And I'm not sure why I reacted the way I did. I said 'Dang son' playfully and looked down. A lot of 'lines' ran through my mind but I couldn't pull one out of the hat at that moment. I mean this is something I do regularly as a joke in other context but in this situation I've never said it. It wasn't a confident response at all but whatever. Im tired af after all this studying haha and you can't be a freaking suavebot all the time. I'm definitely going to learn from it though. She offered the number as friends but I declined. She was maybe an hb8 so maybe that's why I responded that way. Fit and busty af. Oh well ioneencur.

About 30 mins before I talked to her I got a girl's number. Maybe hb6.5. I tend to like he's of this caliber for some reason. Something about them seems freakier. A girl who looks all perfect gives me the dead fish in bed vibe. But I go for them if I want nonetheless. Maybe it's me rejecting myself in a way. Who knows.

Anyway. Went over. Asked her name. Major. Convo was easy. One sided at first as it usually is but less as it progressed. She asked what year I was. I always say I'm a freshman to see how they respond. Then I clarify that I'm a freshman in grad school, first year. She thought that was funny but what's more interesting is that she said 'oh that's bold!' before I clarified. I asked what she meant and she said for a freshmen to approach someone. Then I said 'I do what I want' playfully and clarified that I'm a grad student. Blah blah. Got the number. Hugged, she giggled, I hit my set.
 
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Ah okay. Nick had a thread about this. Texting contradictions I believe. Best reply I saw in there said something along the lines of: not texting cant really lower her interest but texting can. But like you said, it's situational.

Rejection 7/10: Chatted up a girl I met briefly earlier this year. At that time the conversation was one-sided so I ejected early. This time she was still asking me things.

Anyways, I saw her at the gym again and asked for the number after about 5 mins of playful convo. She said I have a boyfriend. And I'm not sure why I reacted the way I did. I said 'Dang son' playfully and looked down. A lot of 'lines' ran through my mind but I couldn't pull one out of the hat at that moment. I mean this is something I do regularly as a joke in other context but in this situation I've never said it. It wasn't a confident response at all but whatever. Im tired af after all this studying haha and you can't be a freaking suavebot all the time. I'm definitely going to learn from it though. She offered the number as friends but I declined. She was maybe an hb8 so maybe that's why I responded that way. Fit and busty af. Oh well ioneencur.

About 30 mins before I talked to her I got a girl's number. Maybe hb6.5. I tend to like he's of this caliber for some reason. Something about them seems freakier. A girl who looks all perfect gives me the dead fish in bed vibe. But I go for them if I want nonetheless. Maybe it's me rejecting myself in a way. Who knows.

Anyway. Went over. Asked her name. Major. Convo was easy. One sided at first as it usually is but less as it progressed. She asked what year I was. I always say I'm a freshman to see how they respond. Then I clarify that I'm a freshman in grad school, first year. She thought that was funny but what's more interesting is that she said 'oh that's bold!' before I clarified. I asked what she meant and she said for a freshmen to approach someone. Then I said 'I do what I want' playfully and clarified that I'm a grad student. Blah blah. Got the number. Hugged, she giggled, I hit my set.
Nice I approached as well on saturday. Got a number but the girl was kinda a 6 but not my type, just to practice. I do get this feeling of not knowing what to say, what is the point of talking to a girl if theres no connection, pretty faces don't mean much to me now.
Idk I think 8's are better. I vibe with them more. I don't feel anything for a 6 idk why..they seem always taken and never single as well.

Sunday and monday somehow not feeling it :/
 
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I do get this feeling of not knowing what to say, what is the point of talking to a girl if theres no connection, pretty faces don't mean much to me now.

That's good. I think if you don't feel a connection you should bail. Unless you just really wanna bang.

Approached a basketball player yesterday. Digits secured. We're texting now but I'm trynna cut this off real quick and set up logistics haha I'm not a good texter.
 
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