Did I Play This Right?

[Glassguy]

Meet her some place very close to your place

 

[wifehunter]

too much effort for a chick...try golf.

 

[foolyoufool]

too much effort for a chick...try golf.

Yeah man this is too much I'm not contacting her unless she reaches out at this point.

 

[wifehunter]

Yeah man this is too much I'm not contacting her unless she reaches out at this point.

Remember they are supposed to be chasing YOU!

 

[Masculinity]

me: Where were ur parties?
her: All in ---
her: If I had known you didn't go last night I would have invited you too
her: I'm glad you had fun
me: you just wanted to get me drunk and take advantage, but thanks for the thought
her: I don't need to get you drunk to have you want to sleep with me
her: but no worries lmao
me: How can you be so sure?
her: Well I guess I can never be 100 percent sure but the majority of guys will sleep with a girl even if they don't like her
her: So
me: Wow you have a pretty messed up view of guys
her: I know a lot of guys who have straight up told me that was the case
me: Sounds like you're not talking to the right kind of guys
her: Not even guys I dated, but just guys I've talked to as friends
her: So you wouldn't sleep with me then?
me: Maybe, maybe not
her: Wow Okay
me: I like to take things slow
her: Okay
me: I want to see you again soon
her: I'm busy the next 12 days working
her: but after that I'm free

What I would have said:

me: Where were ur parties?
her: All in ---
her: If I had known you didn't go last night, I would have invited you too
her: I'm glad you had fun
me: you just wanted to get me drunk and try to get lucky with me but thanks for the thought
her: I don't need to get you drunk to have you want to sleep with me
her: but no worries lmao
me: I wouldn't be so sure
her: Well I guess I can never be 100 percent sure but the majority of guys will sleep with a girl even if they don't like her
her: So
me: Wow you have a pretty messed up view of guys
her: I know a lot of guys who have straight up told me that was the case
me: Sounds like you're getting an upgrade with me ; ]
her: Not even guys I dated, but just guys I've talked to as friends
her: So you wouldn't sleep with me then?
me: Maybe, maybe not. Depends on how you play your cards.
her: Wow Okay
me: I like to take things slow
her: Okay
me: I want to see you again soon
her: I'm busy the next 12 days working
her: but after that I'm free
me: Mmm...probably won't work out. You're busy. I totally understand. When you're ready, you know where to find me. If my schedule allows, maybe we'll hangout.


PS: Good job on the "maybe, maybe not" response to her asking if you would want to sleep with her. That was gold.

 

[foolyoufool]

What I would have said:

me: Mmm...probably won't work out. You're busy. I totally understand. When you're ready, you know where to find me. If my schedule allows, maybe we'll hangout.


PS: Good job on the "maybe, maybe not" response to her asking if you would want to sleep with her. That was gold.

Thanks, I love the last line of yours. "When you are ready, you know where to find me." I'm not so sure that "maybe, maybe not" was the right move because she felt like I rejected her, but I wanted to play it mysterious and not so predictable. Gotta calibrate for each different girl is my theory.