Cheeky_James
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Cheeky_James
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It’s time to channel some of this guy
RESPECT .. the C0ck
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And TAAAAAAME the Cvnt! (Cracks invisible whip)
RESPECT .. the C0ck
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And TAAAAAAME the Cvnt! (Cracks invisible whip)
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Cheeky_James
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Man I wish my lil Brazilian wingman was here.
He was a fearless and Sleaxy bastard .lol
Looked like a short Raul Julia and could open anywhere. I miss that lil fvcker .
He was a fearless and Sleaxy bastard .lol
Looked like a short Raul Julia and could open anywhere. I miss that lil fvcker .
Cheeky_James
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Cheeky_James
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Cheeky_James
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Opened one chick tonite tonight.
She was the opposite of a Butter-face.
a butter-body.
Her face was instgram worthy tho . Wow.
now I’m waiting for some drunk hinge chick to make up her mind on a late night booty call in the city .
drunk chicks man….
too old for this sh1t!
She was the opposite of a Butter-face.
a butter-body.
Her face was instgram worthy tho . Wow.
now I’m waiting for some drunk hinge chick to make up her mind on a late night booty call in the city .
drunk chicks man….
too old for this sh1t!