R
Ranger
Guest
So you’re saying that the DJ bible didn’t actually fix something else that still exists?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Caught girlfriend cheating just now.
- Thread starter niceguytoalphamale
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Ranger, sometimes after being stupid for so long the old programming doesnt make sense anymore. Man finds a different way.
R
Ranger
Guest
Then you should be ok. Go forth.
If that was true...why did you do things to turn her switch off?
Sorry goodstuff. Didn’t realize it was your post.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Its not. I was saying he might have a descent core now. The only thing is the questions he asks can get him "stuck on stupid".
R
Ranger
Guest
What’s underneath has more stroke than what’s on top. The earlier program has neuro pathways that have been long established.
The femine imperative is embedded in everyday thoughts. Even holding a door for a woman.
When one sees the program underneath he can then consciously rewrite his pathways. They call it cognitive learning.
The femine imperative is embedded in everyday thoughts. Even holding a door for a woman.
When one sees the program underneath he can then consciously rewrite his pathways. They call it cognitive learning.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@mrgoodstuff @Ranger I had a crystal methamphetamine problem. I ended up using some with her.. now that stuff makes me really feminine and insecure about myself. But she reassured me I wasn't going to lose her and look what happened
R
Ranger
Guest
Stupidity is nothing more than a confusion. His core is in conflict with the new stuff.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Maybe that shyt is still in you. Stop worrying about this. You need to stop talking about it. Fvck her if you can, if its too much bs then dont mess with her.
R
Ranger
Guest
Whoa. The drug took you right to what was underneath. Drugs don’t put anything in.
Don’t do this.
What you are feeling is pretty normal when a man falls for a woman and she starts to pull back emotionally. The drugs didn’t put anything in you. The imperative is already in you.
Now go forth with your plan and just observe what happens.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
R
Ranger
Guest
That’s the imperative. No man who lives by your self description would think like that.
When she’s done with the new cvck/cvcks she will be back. You are mr. Stable/dependable. Why wouldn’t she come back? You’re a dependable little boyfriend. A man totally trapped in the feminine imperative. Girls do that. Do it all the time.
marmel75
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R
Ranger
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Listen to Spaz. It’s painted on your forehead.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
We're bombarded subliminally, in music, in advertising, in societal norms, in laws, etc. As we become enlightened we are aware of it. Many of us have a core foundation which was by design put there to support the imperative.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
You should move on, I know you're not but you should.....
niceguytoalphamale
Master Don Juan
@Chi Town problem is I can't prove it for sure.. she still has her old facebook messenger open, her best friend added me, and she hasn't told me we are finished. I guess it isn't over after all.. I just have to see what happens and let you all know. But one thing is for sure I wont be falling in love with her again, and I sure as hell know what not to do this time round.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.