Caught girlfriend cheating just now.

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When a woman decides to block me on FB or any social platform then I'd take it as she wanting to be dismissed by me.

That's how I operate.
Uhm no you dont....hence the now 9 page thread asking 548 questions about her
so we made a deal that we would only see each other and no-one else, she agreed, then we got into a relationship again
Because she has your hamster spinning out of control on this forum, I am going out on a limb to say that the relationship was totally your idea and not hers. Thus you forced her into a relationship, regardless of if you want to admit that or not. Even if she had brought it up, it was all done by her to complete her monkey branch swing to the next guy that she already had lined up. She was buying time to get away from you and ghost you instead of you blowing up on her. She had zero intent on staying with you.

One person is the first person to bring up exclusiveness in a relationship. Since you said "she agreed", you will never convince me that it was her idea and not yours.

The fact of the matter is this: You do not know how to walk away, you cannot and did not identify signs that the chick was losing interest and you do not know how to properly deal with a chick showing disrespectful actions.

If you read the DJ Bible I would advise you to read it several more times because your actions are way off your words.
 

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Guys- you DO NOT "punish" a woman by giving her ultimatums, forcing her into a relationship, etc.

You only use silence and distance by withdrawing yourself from the situation and if she reaches out, she has a lot of making up to do. If her negative behavior continues after that, you walk away for good.

Your job is to fvck her. And fvck her again. Ask her to join you in something that you want to do anyway and fvck her some more. Eventually she will be hooked/in love/however you want to phrase it and she start the relationship talk. At that point you can decide if she has earned a relationship with you and if you want to be in one with her.
 

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You say she reassured you that she wouldn't leave you, while you were taking hits of meth


That's like a woman promising you she won't remarry while you're on your death bed
 

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Hell maybe I should be drunk on this Tuesday morning.
 

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@Ranger ranger ok I did what you said.. I accepted her friends friend request but then she blocked me.. why is this? I also told my ex I don't want her friends adding me.
 

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@Ranger ranger ok I did what you said.. I accepted her friends friend request but then she blocked me.. why is this? I also told my ex I don't want her friends adding me.
Because your now ex gf is seeing someone new and her friend doesnt want you to be able to see what is going on through her fb page.

They dont want to be friends with you on FB or for you to be able to see what they are doing.
 

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@Ranger ranger ok I did what you said.. I accepted her friends friend request but then she blocked me.. why is this? I also told my ex I don't want her friends adding me.
Show me where @Ranger advised you to do this because I don't believe it.
 

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@Chi Town problem is I can't prove it for sure.. she still has her old facebook messenger open, her best friend added me, and she hasn't told me we are finished. I guess it isn't over after all.. I just have to see what happens and let you all know. But one thing is for sure I wont be falling in love with her again, and I sure as hell know what not to do this time round.

Why would you need to prove anything to leave her?

Are you ok with your women blocking you and disappearing for 12 days?
 
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The chain of events on this one is wierd.

What I can say is that this "relationship" is done. These ladies are toying with you, and I garantee they are laughing at you behind your back.

The woman you think you are "in a relationship" with blocks you on fb, her best friends send you a friend request JUST TO block you.

This is dunzo. Leave it alone.

My guess is that you pissed her off somehow during your meth use. I'm also wondering, given your lack of clarity right now, if you are still using. You are SPINNING.

If ur using, put all this **** down until you've been clean 2 months because you're not processing it correctly
 
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Firstly OP, unless you are using social media to game women, OLD etc. Get off social media.

Ghost completely. I use an iPhone for the express purpose of security and privacy. I am completely removed from google. No trace for the last two years. The friends that were important, have my phone number.
Social media is a tool for women and the imperative. It has its uses but not for me. I have my own writing web site. It’s being developed now. But my life is never on it and never will be.

Social media is a trap. Trying to find out things about this woman is insane. You are stuck in a loop. She always was and is for fukking. I bet your mother never told you that?
 
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