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Guys- you DO NOT "punish" a woman by giving her ultimatums, forcing her into a relationship, etc.

You only use silence and distance by withdrawing yourself from the situation and if she reaches out, she has a lot of making up to do. If her negative behavior continues after that, you walk away for good.

Your job is to fvck her. And fvck her again. Ask her to join you in something that you want to do anyway and fvck her some more. Eventually she will be hooked/in love/however you want to phrase it and she start the relationship talk. At that point you can decide if she has earned a relationship with you and if you want to be in one with her.
 

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You say she reassured you that she wouldn't leave you, while you were taking hits of meth


That's like a woman promising you she won't remarry while you're on your death bed
 

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Hell maybe I should be drunk on this Tuesday morning.
 

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@Ranger ranger ok I did what you said.. I accepted her friends friend request but then she blocked me.. why is this? I also told my ex I don't want her friends adding me.
 

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@Ranger ranger ok I did what you said.. I accepted her friends friend request but then she blocked me.. why is this? I also told my ex I don't want her friends adding me.
Because your now ex gf is seeing someone new and her friend doesnt want you to be able to see what is going on through her fb page.

They dont want to be friends with you on FB or for you to be able to see what they are doing.
 

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The chain of events on this one is wierd.

What I can say is that this "relationship" is done. These ladies are toying with you, and I garantee they are laughing at you behind your back.

The woman you think you are "in a relationship" with blocks you on fb, her best friends send you a friend request JUST TO block you.

This is dunzo. Leave it alone.

My guess is that you pissed her off somehow during your meth use. I'm also wondering, given your lack of clarity right now, if you are still using. You are SPINNING.

If ur using, put all this **** down until you've been clean 2 months because you're not processing it correctly
 

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Firstly OP, unless you are using social media to game women, OLD etc. Get off social media.

Ghost completely. I use an iPhone for the express purpose of security and privacy. I am completely removed from google. No trace for the last two years. The friends that were important, have my phone number.
Social media is a tool for women and the imperative. It has its uses but not for me. I have my own writing web site. It’s being developed now. But my life is never on it and never will be.

Social media is a trap. Trying to find out things about this woman is insane. You are stuck in a loop. She always was and is for fukking. I bet your mother never told you that?
 

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@Ranger
"Get off social media"?!

I may be wrong but your pic looks like you are pushing high 40's. Your definitely far removed from "twentysomething".

The twentysomethings use social media to date, flirt, connect. You realize this, correct?

The "Get off social media" advice will take him out of his age group game, thus leaving him celibate.

Maybe for a fourtysomething "get off social media" is good advice. For a twentysomething, that's not good advice.
 
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"Get off social media"?!

I may be wrong but your pic looks like you are pushing high 40's. Your definitely far removed from "twentysomething".

The twentysomethings use social media to date, flirt, connect. You realize this, correct?

The "Get off social media" advice will take him out of his age group game, thus leaving him celibate.

Maybe for a fourtysomething "get off social media" is good advice. For a twentysomething, that's not good advice.
Real social skills are not obtained by social media. Keeping him on the plantation with social media is a destructive act.
He needs to move away from his group, which is failing. I can see why women want men to stay on social media. Your thoughts on this are totally girl thoughts and girl dynamics. Men should not be going where the women want them to be. The girls need to come to where the men are. We have survival on our side and the ability to produce it in abundance.
Hell, they even bust into the boy scouts with political pressures. Just can stand the idea of male tribal fraternity. If they had wanted girls in there, they would have sent an invitation.

He was raised in a very sinister world of feminine garbage. Social media, music, movies etc. all have a feminine “power” bent the last couple of years.
I reject your assertion and reality that he should get his social connection from social media.

He needs to do the exact opposite. His frame is difficult enough to restructure without women telling him he should be on social media. Slvt-land doesnt help him.
 
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