This will all backfire on you mark my words. Take it from me, I’ve made so many bad decisions, Handled situations in properly, and was just down right dumb. You learn though. Your age speaks for itself and that’s ok, we all learn as we go. You don’t sound mature at all and all this sounds like a high school dilemma. Facebook, her friend adding you, you trying to reason why..is the for real? Never do anything just to mess with someone’s head or get revenge. You don’t “owe” her a reason, you don’t “Have” to put up with her and you don’t “have” to be mr nice guy..you don’t have to do sh!t but End it properly, for you sake and hers. It’s about what is morally sound to you. For me, I wouldn’t WANT to leave someone in the dark like this especially with the “evidence” you have. Even if you are hurt..who just ghosts someone? I could see if it was just a short fling but if not you’ll regret it. Be a man, handle the situation, talk to her, follow your gut and make a decision. Even if you talk to her, no one says you have to stay with her. Also the poem thing is probably the worst childish tactic I’ve heard in a while. If you don’t handle this properly it’s gonna resurface and you’ll be back to square one emotionally. Good luck.
