Caught girlfriend cheating just now.

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@Ranger no contact seems to always bring her back I'm trying to keep strong and see if it would bring her back again.
That’s the imperative. No man who lives by your self description would think like that.
When she’s done with the new cvck/cvcks she will be back. You are mr. Stable/dependable. Why wouldn’t she come back? You’re a dependable little boyfriend. A man totally trapped in the feminine imperative. Girls do that. Do it all the time.
 

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Pump the brakes! Revenge cheating is not cowardice! It's probably the best form of punishment one can dole out to a cheater. I did it then kicked her to the curb. She couldn't believe what happened and it ****ed her up Good. The thing is if you do it you have to ensure it will be swift and certain and you'll have to be purposely sloppy so as to "get caught". It's hysterical to watch it play out and have them get all angry that you did such a thing to them .
Bang her best friend
 
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The dark side of the imperative is deep within embedded...

It's obvious to us all except you OP.

How you think WILL influence how you do things.

How you do things EXPOSES how you think.
Listen to Spaz. It’s painted on your forehead.
 
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The dark side of the imperative is deep within embedded...

It's obvious to us all except you OP.

How you think WILL influence how you do things.

How you do things EXPOSES how you think.
We're bombarded subliminally, in music, in advertising, in societal norms, in laws, etc. As we become enlightened we are aware of it. Many of us have a core foundation which was by design put there to support the imperative.
 

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@Ranger yes of course she will come back to me... once she's done fkn half of the city she was in. But if that's the case she's going to start to wonder where her bf is because I haven't initiated any conversation since she left
 

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If you caught her cheating why would you want her back?

I'm lost
 

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@Chi Town town I haven't caught her physically cheating. Just behavioral stuff and her deactivating her old facebook but keeping her messenger open, and blocking me on her new one.
 
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@Chi Town problem is I can't prove it for sure.. she still has her old facebook messenger open, her best friend added me, and she hasn't told me we are finished. I guess it isn't over after all.. I just have to see what happens and let you all know. But one thing is for sure I wont be falling in love with her again, and I sure as hell know what not to do this time round.
 

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@mrgoodstuff @Ranger I had a crystal methamphetamine problem. I ended up using some with her.. now that stuff makes me really feminine and insecure about myself. But she reassured me I wasn't going to lose her and look what happened
When was the last time you used?
 
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Hey guys, ok so I just caught my girlfriend cheating. Fake facebook account which she has me blocked. So I made a different account to confirm this. I'm collecting my things soon and I wrote her a poem for when I walk out the door, it says. Roses are red, my love is dead, now watch me close out door, you cheating w.h.o.r.e. And just lots of lol's written all over it. She went on a trip to see her best friend but I have endless amount of realistic evidence to prove she was being unfaithful. Any thoughts how I should proceed now when I give her the poem? Lol
Is this the same girl that you swore to us to leave her in your other thread? Man you really need to learn it the hard way then.
 

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@Glassguy that's why I'm so confused because I never initiate anything but the sexual part of things, i did everything the dj bible said and I'm here now.
Like a robot huh? Women dont want robots trying to be something they are not. They want a person who understands these things but still acts like themselves.

My guess is there were a lot of incongruities that you dont understand but she does with your "act"
 

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@mrgoodstuff @Ranger I had a crystal methamphetamine problem. I ended up using some with her.. now that stuff makes me really feminine and insecure about myself. But she reassured me I wasn't going to lose her and look what happened

"Some place back there
Smiling in the pictures you would take
Doing crystal myth
Will lift you up until you break
It won't stop
I won't come down, I keep stock
With a tick-tock rhythm and a bump for the drop
And then I bumped up
I took the hit I was given
Then I bumped again
And then I bumped again
How do I get back there to
The place where I fell asleep inside you?
How do I get myself back to
The place where you said
I want something else
To get me through this
Semi-charmed kind of life
I want something else
I'm not listening when you say
Good-bye"


Lyrics sounds eerily familiar I bet, OP?
 

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