"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Need help impressing my boss.

theemployee

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I recently started my new job at this large accounting firm and really want to be on good terms with my boss. I heard from a lot of my office buddies that she can be really demanding and will usually assign a lot of overtime hours for employees that work hard. Since my wife just gave birth to our second baby girl, I really need those extra hours to earn more money.

Like I said, it’s a big company so the higher ups won’t really notice you if you don’t put in the effort or have been there long enough. My question now is, how do I impress my boss to get those extra hours? Any good tips for getting the attention of Lima women?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Always have a hard on that shows.

And then swagger around the office like u own it.

That'll be impressive and you'd certainly get her attention.

Be careful what you ask for....
 

mrgoodstuff

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Always have a hard on that shows.

And then swagger around the office like u own it.

That'll be impressive and you'd certainly get her attention.

Be careful what you ask for....
So if he has abundance of confidence and more enlightened than his "boss" he should marginalize it and reduce it for her?
 

theemployee

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Always have a hard on that shows.

And then swagger around the office like u own it.

That'll be impressive and you'd certainly get her attention.

Be careful what you ask for....
LMAO! :D
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Spaz

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That I would do, but I need some extra hours for extra money...
To get attention, u need 2 be different then the rest, a special sort of fella.

But since u r a newbie in the office I don't recommend u do so.

Settle in 1st, act normal around the rest of ur office mates. Get ur office mates to respect u 1st. That's important. Once that's achieved then you can go about impressing ur lady boss.
 

redskinsfan92

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Get a 2nd source of income going. Some side work. Selling stuff on Ebay or handyman. Just a thought.
 

greatsnake

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By getting on her good side, you mean at a personal level or professional level? Lol
 

GT40

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Don't impress anyone . Be reliable, be responsible, do your job .
Yes to the above

Be Alpha and show leadership.
Show you’re a self starter.
That you can work alone.
Always meet your deadlines.
Don’t try to get into her pants. Office relationships and plates are messy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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