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Guys you know rule 1 have more then one 'girl' friend to go out with. How do you handle the exclusivity demands that crop up. Well I've acquired two and just had both for sex on the same day. one in the morning and one in at night. reason I'm writing is I like both alot. One is okay being...

Brothers I am spinning am still friends with exwife and spinning 2 plates (gf) right now. One plate I met 5 weeks ago and have slept with twice. We have mainly gone dancing, dinner and alot of making out. She is a highly educated career woman very sweet and bought me a small gift (hi...

There is a need on this forum for some alternative views of the world ...here is a little different perspective hopefully it helps ... 'Most women want to know a man before becoming intimate with him. That often takes many more dates than three. If you find a woman you like and she wants to...

I just came back from a bistro where an acquaintance of mine from social dances almost insisted I sit in front of her while she gave me a long neck back and hand massage. Does this count as major kino or what! She has a hot body but not face. I have another woman pretty face but fatty who...

Guys, need advice on the DJ way I met a slender young woman and really like her. She gave me her number last Friday. We planned to go to a Salsa dance tomorrow (Sat) . I mentioned a Swing dance tonight(Friday) she said she was coming with a guy friend but turned up alone. We had a great time...

It is amazing but if you date online you will find that literally every woman over 35 - 40 now says they want to be friends first ...and they mean it. If you let them know in person or by email that you want romance first they say no thanks. The girl magazines, columns, psychologists etc...

Brothers what is the 3 date rule? Can you elaborate. I find myself in these ongoing dates that resemble pals with not sex. In the past I see that if I was kissing a girl hard on the first date things went well romantically and sexually but if no kissing took place we tended to stay...

This song is a commentary on being with a simple woman versus a beautiful high maintenance one. Ever hear "when you're in love with a beautiful woman you gotta watch out" by Dr. Hook. From my read here, most broken hearts speak of beautiful women who are always looking to do better and making...

I have found that younger women will not respond to older guys ( 7 plus years) online. I look and feel young and want a vibrant younger woman 10 or more years younger. Has anyone else had this expereince and how have you gotten around it. I have heard that alot of men say they are 3-10 years...

Brothers, I've been hurt because I fall in love too quickly. What are some techniques or how do you keep from falling when the woman is working on you hard. Are there other methods besides trying to spin other plates.

The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped) -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Let's re-start the No Contact Challenge. My recent 6 month gf put me into the just friend zone a few months ago .. after leading me to think I...

I read alot about not having relationships etc. just play alot of women. But are you happy. Research now conclusively states that happiness is not aquestion of how much wealth you have nor of how much you have achieved, rather it is a dependent on two things that everyone here seems to miss 1...

This is a general question on spinning plates. I have 3 plates I'm trying to spin now. They are different gf material. Is it okay to keep a very 3rd rate plate until something better shows up if I acknowledge that she is 3rd rate gf material and detach myself emotionally from her. She is pretty...

I have followed the No Contact advse I received here for over 2 weeks after being told that her shrink said no to any sex until she is ready (been over 6 months - we never did it) although she found time to fuuck a guy on first date and even told me about it ... all upset because he did not call...

Can't free myself of a mildly bpd woman who lures me back over and over into being Cap'n Save a Ho. She cheated on me with a new guy, yet never put out for me, complains about all her problems, sadness to me every night and her many problems, ... Now she wants to move out of her town and...

Hey brother DJs (I posted here to get some rplies from the mature gents who know what I am going thru.) After a long separation I'm newly single (divorced). Problem is that I'm in my 40's look 30 though. The club scene looks rough to me. Wondering what I got myself into. Previously had the...

Hey brother DJs After a long separation I'm newly single (divorced). Problem is that I'm in my 40's look 30 though. The club scene looks rough to me. Wondering what I got myself into. Previously had the undying loyalty of a steady partner. Now it seems that girls I develop feelings for...

I think the woman I am dating has some BPD. She is in therapy, Falls in love quick, major abandonment issues, many failed relationships etc. She claims to be a good girl ... will not have sex unless it is a relationship she has guarantees with. If she has sex with a man and he does not call her...

Hello DJs, My date and I were sitting in a gazebo on the boardwalk by the beach talking and kissing - she was sitting with her legs across my lap. We were visiting a beach town where there are many homes occupied by seasonal renters. Two males and a female walked by (probably highschool age...