Jean Valjean
Don Juan
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Guys, need advice on the DJ way
I met a slender young woman and really like her. She gave me her number last Friday. We planned to go to a Salsa dance tomorrow (Sat) . I mentioned a Swing dance tonight(Friday) she said she was coming with a guy friend but turned up alone. We had a great time together when I could get her for a dance - feeling alot of vibes from her and good kino.
Problem is other guys had her out dancing ... alot... One bald headed dude who is friends with her kept dragging her away from me. He would just grab her hand and drag her away. She put up little protests but danced with him 2 -3 dances in a row. I think if she did not like him it they would not be dancing. I walked away or acted cool and uncaring. Why get into an argument over a chick I hardly know and it is not even a date. She drove her own car and paid her own way. Am I right?
Then some tall dude (total stranger to her) began monopolizing her. I just danced with other ladies and acted like I couldn't care less.
Finally to test the waters I approached her while she was talking to the tall dude to ask her for the dance. My game was to find out if I was number 1, and he was just a desperate guy. Well .. she told me NO but wait for the next dance (prob so she could keep talking to tall dude). I ignored her the rest of the evening and left the dance while she was still dancing with the tall dude.
1. Was her behaviour just total low interest in me
2. How should I handle it tomorrow at the Salsa dance when I see her
3. Did I do the right thing tonight just letting her dance with whoever - why get into an argument over a chick who has low interest in me to begin with.
Was there any turf for me to protect
4. Damn it, attractive women are difficult - how the hell do you keep them!!!!!
I met a slender young woman and really like her. She gave me her number last Friday. We planned to go to a Salsa dance tomorrow (Sat) . I mentioned a Swing dance tonight(Friday) she said she was coming with a guy friend but turned up alone. We had a great time together when I could get her for a dance - feeling alot of vibes from her and good kino.
Problem is other guys had her out dancing ... alot... One bald headed dude who is friends with her kept dragging her away from me. He would just grab her hand and drag her away. She put up little protests but danced with him 2 -3 dances in a row. I think if she did not like him it they would not be dancing. I walked away or acted cool and uncaring. Why get into an argument over a chick I hardly know and it is not even a date. She drove her own car and paid her own way. Am I right?
Then some tall dude (total stranger to her) began monopolizing her. I just danced with other ladies and acted like I couldn't care less.
Finally to test the waters I approached her while she was talking to the tall dude to ask her for the dance. My game was to find out if I was number 1, and he was just a desperate guy. Well .. she told me NO but wait for the next dance (prob so she could keep talking to tall dude). I ignored her the rest of the evening and left the dance while she was still dancing with the tall dude.
1. Was her behaviour just total low interest in me
2. How should I handle it tomorrow at the Salsa dance when I see her
3. Did I do the right thing tonight just letting her dance with whoever - why get into an argument over a chick who has low interest in me to begin with.
Was there any turf for me to protect
4. Damn it, attractive women are difficult - how the hell do you keep them!!!!!