"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Holiday season and gifts

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I am spinning am still friends with exwife and spinning 2 plates (gf) right now.
One plate I met 5 weeks ago and have slept with twice. We have mainly gone dancing, dinner and alot of making out.

She is a highly educated career woman very sweet and bought me a small gift (hi quality scented candle) wrapped with red ribbon. We did not see each other over Christmas as she had a convention so I thought no gifts.

The question is should I have gotten her a small token gift as well and if so is it too late to get something for her.


The other plate is just new and I got all my gifts for the ex who I spent xmas with.


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Spinning plates is hard to do when they go to the same dance.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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If "plates" is all they are, then don't sweat giving gifts. In those kinds of situations, you should give gifts if you WANT to, not because you feel you HAVE to.

At this point, I'd say F it.
 
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She should have thrown the candle and hit you in the head with it.

The scented candle is not for you. It's for you and her. It's like when a husband gifts a wife with a 52" flat screen TV. The candle is not REALLY for you to use alone. It's for you to use when she is there.

The gift is a big hint that she wants to be THERE...with you...and her candle.

As far as giving her a gift in return don't bother unless you are going to give her a Victoria Secret gift card.
 
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good advise. No need to buy her a gift anyway I always pay when we go out - she occasionallys buys me some treats so fair enough



Going to a ig NYE party with all my plates at the same place. Wish me luck!

Happy New Year brothers!
 
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