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    Ex gf looks through my phone and texted other girls

    My ex-gf who I’m going through a messy breakup with looked through my phone the other night and texted three girls “hey, I’m just figuring out if I need an STD check so texting all the girls Rick’s been with. This is (her name) his on and off girlfriend”. I didn’t find out until the next day...
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    Woman I’ve crushed on for awhile makes last minute date

    This girl I’ve had my eye on and have flirted online with (lives in another city) hit me up right before the weekend saying she’d be in town and asked if I was around to hang out. I had another date lined up for Sat. night but told her I could hang during the day. I figured she was just passing...
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    Is this the exclusive talk, or something else?

    Fellas, Been seeing (and ****ing) this girl for about 4 weeks now. Keeping it to once a week roughly (a few twice a week). She was going on other dates when we met and knows I’m dating others as well. Last week she told me she doesn’t want me ****ing other girls, that she dropped her others. I...
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    FR: Insta-date then found out she’s a virgin

    Fellas, Met this 24 yr old girl at a networking event last week. I was there solo as Was she. She came up to me and introduced herself while I was at the open bar. Young,cute, and good conversation so I decided to go for the same night date. After some rapport, I said “let’s get outta here and...
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    Put an orbiter in their place?

    Last weekend I finally got fed up with a male orbiter in my gf’s friend group for his lack of boundaries. He is known for making rude and sexual comments both in front and behind my back. Not just to my gf but all the girls in the group. They just play it off a he’s the dirty old man (he is a...
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    Pep talk Needed

    A chick I've posted on here about before is back in my head. It was about a 2 year deal, her cheating on her long time live in BF with me, lying, gaslighting, push/pull, all the good stuff - with both of us. He didn't know but then found out. Everything blew up in her face but she went back and...
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    FR: Pushed through excuses and got s*x on third date

    This chick reached out to me on social media and showed interest in meeting up. I entertained her lightly for a couple weeks before setting the first date which led to only a little making out. 2nd date was a hike and drinks in the hot tub after. Some heavy petting and more making out. Did the...
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    Girl with boyfriend gave me her number

    She was an instructor for a training course I was in earlier this week so we’re in a similar line of work. Mid 20’s and carried herself well. I have some status in this context and built some rapport with her throughout. Anyway, sent her a DM the next day. Me: “Hey good job instructing...
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    She reaches back out and then flakes

    Me (36) her (28). Started seeing this chick back in early summer. Met her at an event through mutual friends and then slid into her DMs and got a date. Things ramped up over the next few weeks into mid summer. Got sexual by the 2nd or 3rd date. We hung out maybe once a week to where her IL was...
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    Science points to alpha fux beta bux and women’s menstrual cycle

    https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/252024#1 Alpha fux beta bux in a 2012 study?
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    Quickest Meeting to Lay Story

    A few years ago I just moved to a new town, was spending the weekend moving into my place and walked downtown to a pizza place for a lunch break. Sat at the bar, started talking to this chick that was by herself and by the time I was finished she came back to my place with me. Banged her all...
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    Just Tell Her How You Feel...

    I’ve personally gotten this advice from friends; Have had a chick recently say this to me: “I’m hesitant because I just don’t know how you really feel about us, it seems you can take it or leave it”; And just this past weekend, a girlfriend of a girl that has been flaking on my buddy said...
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    FR: 2nd date. Night cap at my place. No s**

    TL;DR 2nd date. Drinks, dinner, night cap back at my place. Make out but nothing more. Hard to sexualize the conversation. Fairly intense/driven female professional that talked a lot about work and herself. Texted when she got home, then again in the morning to hang out again that day. Had a...
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    Can you be both the Alpha Fuk and Beta Buck?

    It’s pretty much always talked about that you are either one or the other and that women can’t find both aspects of their dualistic mating strategy in one man, hence the common stories of hypergamy in action. Is it possible? If yes, have you experienced it or what’s it look like?
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    How To Be The Side Guy

    Morality of messing with someone's else's woman aside, sometimes it's reality. She's either monkey branching, or has a provider at home with no intention of leaving him but you fulfill a need. 1. You are on HER (and her dude's) schedule. It's extremely hard to lead the relationship. 2. You...
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    Can you game a woman player?

    Can good game work on a woman player? Most of the tips on Game are healthy ways to be a man, and the stuff preached by some dating coaches (i.e. c*rey w*yne) seem like they work great on "normal" girls, but what if you're dealing with a player? How do you turn things around, get the power...
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    Didn’t escalate...

    Had a day date doing an outdoor activity with a smoking hot personal trainer. This was our second time - the first date was 2 months ago doing the same activity and she declined anything after where I could escalate. This time she reached out, suggested we go again, but added "or get drinks...
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