FR: Insta-date then found out she’s a virgin

[RickPound]

Fellas,

Met this 24 yr old girl at a networking event last week. I was there solo as Was she. She came up to me and introduced herself while I was at the open bar. Young,cute, and good conversation so I decided to go for the same night date. After some rapport, I said “let’s get outta here and go get a drink. I know another place with dancing and a band”.

Got to talking later that night and it came up that she was a virgin and saving herself for marriage. Even has a promise ring To herself she wears on her ring finger. Anyway, didn’t let it phase me. There was touching, close dancing, etc but I didn’t push it and dropped her off at her hotel. She texted later that night and seemed to fish a bit for an invite. Told her to come back over but it fizzled out.
Anyway, I’m pretty sure if I ask her out again she’s into it, but damn I don’t know if I’m ready for all the effort to try and get some from her.

she could be lying too of course

 

[bat soup]

she was a virgin and saving herself for marriage.

Doesn't seem like she's doing a very good job. My advice: tell her that you'll do her in the mouth and then in the ass (in that order) and that way she'll still be a virgin. That way she'll keep her sacred "innocence" for the naive virgin lover she ends up marrying and his wallet will be the first to jizz into her purse.

 

[pipeman84]

Anyway, I’m pretty sure if I ask her out again she’s into it, but damn I don’t know if I’m ready for all the effort to try and get some from her.

she could be lying too of course

Man, there are plenty of hoes out there, don't take advantage of this girl...karma and all that.
If she's lying and/or is a born-again virgin, do you really want to deal with such a blatant liar/nutcase?

 

[RickPound]

You’re both right. Nothing can be determined without a second date. I’ll play it a bit aggressive and get her to show her hand.

 

[RickPound]

texted her a couple days later with a little banter. She said she was recovering from the flu - before I even asked her out again. But I still said rest up I wanna take you out next week. She sent some dumb meme back. Classic…

leaving this one unless she shows interest after “she gets better”

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Striking while the iron is hot is paramount in these situations.

 

[bat soup]

texted her a couple days later with a little banter. She said she was recovering from the flu

Another lame excuse