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    Got complacent and girlfriend is losing interest

    Hey brothers, I got myself in a bad situation. Not sure it can be salvaged. Hopefully, this does not turn in to a novel, but here is the situation. Ive been seeing a very good woman for about 18 months. Asian chick, conservative, family values. Very attractive. I did not put her on a...
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    Began too friendly, and now want to escalate

    Hey brothers, A bit of a longer post, but here it goes. Over a year ago, I invited a girl I met through tennis to hit around. I think we met up twice and just played tennis and talk. I was about to leave the country and for whatever reason, I never really escalated. I traveled and then...
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    Becoming Quantifiably Exceptional

    Just a free stream of thought... Top 3 Areas to attract women Muscle Money Personality (similar to Game, but I like personality better) Percentiles Muscle- Men with 6 pack abs in U.S - <1% Money - Top 10% median income earners in U.S = $173,176 (top 5% =$350k), Another metric- Percentage of...
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    Self Improvement - Thoughts on Attitude and Personality

    One thing I believe often time gets overlooked. Improve your personality and attitude. This is the one thing that we can improve almost instantly and will make us men improve in every other area of life as well - relationships with our buddies, networking, profession, with women, achievement...
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    Not able to go multiple rounds a night like I used to; Any remedy?

    I am 39 years old. No problems getting erections. However, I used to be able to go multiple rounds a night with a woman. Now, it's I go one and I am done for the night and maybe not even ready to go early the next morning. Yes, I can take Cialis/Viagara, but is there anything else I can do...
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    Stoic: Lay Report #1

    I know some think these posts are cheezey, but I've always enjoyed reading them and think they can be helpful. I am going to start posting these for new lays. Here is mine from last night. I'm 39. Met a very cute, attractive Hispanic, 29 year with big tit.ties last night from one of the...
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    You get to choose your identity

    Quick thought on identity. We all choose our identity whether we realize it or not. Choosing the correct identity for you is extremely important. Because all behavior and actions stems from identity. For example, I have created my own image of myself as a gritty, extremely, hardworking...
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    Money>Muscle. Money will take you farther in life than Muscle.

    I realize this is not an earth shattering revelation, but I think men should take heed of it. Thoughts on where a man may want to prioritize his time. Cliff notes version- Money>Looks. This isn't an original idea, but I don't know if guys on this forum pay enough attention to it. I here...
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    Oneitis Prevention and Treatment Plan

    Writing this is selfishly more of a reminder for myself than others. I am not a doctor but I diagnosed myself with moderate Oneitis yesterday. So, after maybe 18 months of spinning plates with maybe 6 different girls that have come and gone, now find myself with a case of moderate oneitis. I...
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    Competition Anxiety- Somewhat interesting personal case study on CO

    Somewhat interesting personal case study on competition anxiety that happened in the last three weeks. I'll write out a numbered cliff notes version because I hate writing long paragraphs and am not the best writer as you will soon see. Also, not particular proud of any of my running around...
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    You may want to try video chatting before meeting up

    Something I have been doing more after going on a few first dates and being disappointed when the woman shows up looking significantly less attractive in person or has a personality that does not mesh with my own. Anyway, here are the plusses for doing this: 1.Gets them to comply early on...
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    Relationship coming to an end- what would you do now?

    I'd like to get your thoughts on this relationship and where should I go from here. A little long winded, but just bear with me please. I tried to break down a somewhat cliff notes version as detailed below: 1. I have been in a relationship with a very well behaved Filipina for the last 16...
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    Breaking for 4 months and Goals

    I'm taking a break from this forum until 06/30/2021. Just not progressing as fast on goals that I need to and spending more time than healthy here. I won't be the same person when I return. I'm setting some public goals to give me some accountability when I return. 1. I am in fighting...
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    The 20% OLD Rule

    I'm kind of a big data and numbers guy and came up with this after a fair amount of dates, lays and plate spinning off OLD. This is a general rule that more often than not turns out to be true.. I'm aware there are exceptions to this rule (and every other rule). I've met up with chicks from...
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    Effective way to get her back to HER place?

    Stacked two dates tomorrow night. First dates. Usually I try and schedule dates around me and just come up with an excuse to head back to my place, but couldn't do that this time. What do you do to get back to her place? In the past, I've actually gotten lucky and I'll walk the girl back...
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    Supplements for best results in the gym

    At 37, I'm in excellent shape, but want an edge to get more ripped and add a little more size. I haven't used supplements for a long time. The big thing and break through back then was creatine. Is that still the best supplements out there? I'm not going to take steroids or anything like...
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    Experiences with Hair Transplants?

    Hey brothers, Another thread mentioned this somewhat in passing (thanks to the brother that passed this information along), but I wanted to get more information. What's been your experience with hair transplants? First hand experience would obviously be preferable, but a close buddy's...
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    Accountability. Lost 6 pack. Time to get it back.

    More of a public declaration than anything. I'm 37. Disciplined myself with clean eating and intense consistent work outs. Earned the six pack, which has been pretty elusive as I've gotten a little older. No excuses, just that its more challenging now. I've been getting laid like crazy...
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    Spinning Plates has been a life changer for me

    So finally started to get emotionally grounded after a divorce about a year and a half ago. Made some serious gains in my business and fitness. Improved a couple parts of my personality- a big one being that I cut coffee big time, which is making me naturally calm and mostly emotionally...
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    Last night: trouble getting erection: where do I get from here with plate?

    Hey brothers, Embarrassing, distressing issue from last night. 1. Started taking very small dosage of Zoloft (treats premature ejaculation) ~April 2nd as I think I was cumming faster than I wanted. 2. Had sex with this one plate on 4/11. Started going a little soft midway through. ****! 3...
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