“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Self Improvement - Thoughts on Attitude and Personality

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One thing I believe often time gets overlooked. Improve your personality and attitude.

This is the one thing that we can improve almost instantly and will make us men improve in every other area of life as well - relationships with our buddies, networking, profession, with women, achievement and accomplishment.

What does an exceptional personality and attitude look like?

For me, I try to work on cultivating this attitude/personality even when things are not going well. I always measure my attitude/personality against the standards below:

1. Authentic
2. Positive, never complaining
3. Winning, driven, ambitious attitude (especially respect to sports, business, hobbies). I always believe I am going to win, persevere.
4. Interesting/Curious (I am interested in a ton of things and am interested in other people)
5. Deep and not talk about superficial matters (Not involve myself in petty affairs of others) (not glued to social media) (reading important books)
6. Grateful, Happy

An excellent personality is actually a major achievement (maybe not a stretch to even call it a super power!) Most people have not cultivated one. Because it actually takes a little bit of work to get it. Most people's default attitude is ungrateful, complaining and defeatist in nature.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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