So finally started to get emotionally grounded after a divorce about a year and a half ago. Made some serious gains in my business and fitness. Improved a couple parts of my personality- a big one being that I cut coffee big time, which is making me naturally calm and mostly emotionally unaffected by things going on around me. Women respond to me more positively now then when I was down and out with the divorce. Anyway, I started spinning plates (first time I've ever done this) about a two months ago, with some very early and what I consider rapid success. I thought I'd share how spinning plates is changing me and girls perception of me...
Spinning plates has been extremely effective for me for the following reasons:
1. It has killed my thirstiness and any hints of neediness. I truly don't need to get sex from any one plate.
2. I am improving with women because Its getting me rapid experience with women after a bit of a layoff after divorce.
3. I am naturally much more scarce. It takes me longer to respond to messages, if I even do at all. Seems to spark some anxiety in women.
4. Maybe not the best place to get confidence, but it seems to be improving my self confidence. The plates compliment me all of the time now. I wasn't really getting that when working with one chick at a time.
5. I am leading the relationships to where I want them to go. Why? Because if they don't want them to go where I want them to go, I am fine with bowing out. They are all coming to me on my schedule, not theirs.
6. Now that I have 3 solid plates, I don't have any desire to try and impress them. They are finding out things they are impressed with on their own. They are discovering it. And it's even more intriguing for them. Like, oh why didn't you tell me you did this or have this?
7. The three plates constantly reinforce to me (like Pook says) that I am the prize. And then I carry that out in everyday transactions with other men and women. This seems to really pull other women, that previously would have not made much notice of me.
Spinning plates has been extremely effective for me for the following reasons:
1. It has killed my thirstiness and any hints of neediness. I truly don't need to get sex from any one plate.
2. I am improving with women because Its getting me rapid experience with women after a bit of a layoff after divorce.
3. I am naturally much more scarce. It takes me longer to respond to messages, if I even do at all. Seems to spark some anxiety in women.
4. Maybe not the best place to get confidence, but it seems to be improving my self confidence. The plates compliment me all of the time now. I wasn't really getting that when working with one chick at a time.
5. I am leading the relationships to where I want them to go. Why? Because if they don't want them to go where I want them to go, I am fine with bowing out. They are all coming to me on my schedule, not theirs.
6. Now that I have 3 solid plates, I don't have any desire to try and impress them. They are finding out things they are impressed with on their own. They are discovering it. And it's even more intriguing for them. Like, oh why didn't you tell me you did this or have this?
7. The three plates constantly reinforce to me (like Pook says) that I am the prize. And then I carry that out in everyday transactions with other men and women. This seems to really pull other women, that previously would have not made much notice of me.
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