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    Gender Struggle Escalation

    Is it out of control?? Men trying to "get over" on women, women trying to "get over" on men. The power struggle seems like it's escalating out of control. The "classic family" has the man as the authority of the household and a woman more as its vision. At some point, men started...
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    About to finally crack? Maybe!!

    I'm not sure what's going on lately. I've been in a weird way lately...about ready to jump off a bridge with the stress I've been feeling. I just don't know who else to talk to. Remember that long thread about the "obsessed girl" I was dating who I thought was "crazy"? I've been seeing her...
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    Incidence of Synchronicity in your Life...

    Have you guys ever had synchronicity in your life? By "synchronicity", I mean things that have just happened by seemingly pure chance, yet they have some special meaning to you, or they seem to be steering you in a specific direction or confirming/denying a possible course of action? I'm not...
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    Don't let this stuff consume you.

    This "Don Juan" stuff...it works great for keeping control of yourself in a world filled with crazy female minds. It'll help you understand. But a little knowledge is a dangerous thing. Sometimes, the very thing that keeps you alive in the dating game can also keep you alone. All of these...
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    Does skill in seducing women attract a disproportionate number of "crazies"??

    Are attention wh0res, BPD-girls, etc more attracted to a guy who knows how to seduce women? I've been thinking about it...this girl I've been seeing (the other long thread) always said stuff like, "I've never had a guy look at me/touch me/etc like that before". They're all desperate for love...
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    Anyone here have anxiety issues??

    I know everyone on here thinks I'm depressed, but lately I've begun to wonder if the depression is just a coping mechanism for a deeper anxiety problem. I have a very hard time not being in control of situations. When there's a lot of uncertainty or risk of failure/humiliation, I tend to...
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    How to get rid of an obsessed girl?

    OK...need advice. I've been seeing this girl who's obsessed with me. I mean, she gives me this crap like, "I've dated hundreds of guys and you're the only one in 12 years who I've even been into". She's a very pretty woman, and she's very clever...quick-thinking and witty. She's even...
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    Roller Coasters...

    I've been setting up visits to theme parks with friends this month. Up and down the East Coast of the US so far: Kings Dominion, Richmond, VA Went here with a couple of friends last week. They've come a long way since I was there 10-15 years ago. Their newest coaster is an Intamin...
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    Sexual State

    Sometimes it's more trouble than it's worth. Yup, it's time for Squirrels to ramble in a semi-post-coital reflection. Pull up a chair. It's almost refreshing at times when a woman doesn't want to f**k you. I don't have to engage that "raw male" part of my brain to talk to them and I can talk...
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    Is "being unable to stay mad" a virtue or a character flaw??

    I mean if someone does something that REALLY p*sses me off and either doesn't realize it, or DOES realize it and apologizes but maybe doesn't see the severity of what they did. I just find myself unable to stay angry at people. I mean, I've damned near gotten into fistfights with people...
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    What girls face from online dating sites...

    Well, I raised a stink on this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=184618 Recently, though, I got another girl on the popular "Plenty-o-Fish" dating website to tell me about some of the experiences she's had. I had been talking to her previously and I saw her online, so I...
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    It's gotten to the point where...

    ...I'm almost ready to tell girls, "Hey, let's f**k", just to filter them out. I was chatting with this girl last night...I can tell right away she's one of these "damaged goods" types, one who's been with a lot of guys that have "used her" because she's too stupid to see it coming. You know...
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    Lucid Dreaming - If you're going to dream, may as well enjoy it?

    Lucid dreaming (knowing that you're dreaming) is something that's always interested me. I started messing with being able to recall my dreams a while back after poking around on Steve Pavlina's blog. It's interesting how your mind is rigged to wipe out all but the most intense dreams just...
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    XOOM and other tablets?

    My hard drive bricked yesterday so I was up in Best Buy...while I was there I decided to check out the XOOM WiFi tablet. I honestly would love to have one of these, but I'm not much on shelling out the $600 for one. Anyone have any experience with tablets? What are the good and bad things...
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    Steak!

    Any steak guys here? Where are you guys getting your beef from? How are you preparing it? What cuts do you prefer? My friend and I recently took a trip to a farm about an hour away where they raise natural, grass-fed, grass-finished, dry-aged Angus beef. I can't say enough about it...the...
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    "What brings me joy"...is this what "depression" feels like??

    New thread...to avoid derailing an old one... I started replying to this in another thread...but this is really a separate conversation. Here's the thing...even the things that DO bring me joy, I have to DRAG myself up to them. I mentioned the rock-gym...my brother and I go twice a week...
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    The art of "hard to get" is lost on women these days...

    I had this girl over last night...we watched a movie on the couch, chatted, cuddled, kissed, made out a little bit...of course, I'm constantly trying to escalate. This one's playing REALLY hard-to-get, though. You know they type...she doesn't want to give it up too soon. She wants to, but she's...
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    Movado watches

    I've always been of the opinion that a watch is the only piece of jewelry/ornamentation that a mature man has any business wearing. A nice watch can really set off any outfit, from business garb to a nice casual "club" get-up. I've been thinking for a while about getting a new watch, but I...
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    This is how "spinning plates" works...

    Went away for a weekend snowboarding trip. Got back yesterday around 2PM and wanted some company for the football games. Texted Girl #1 and asked her if she wanted to watch with me. She says maybe...she's gonna be having lunch with a friend in my neighborhood anyway and will call me after she...
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    AskMen.com top 10 reasons not to get married...

    http://www.askmen.com/top_10/dating/top-10-reasons-not-to-get-married.html# Interesting read.
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