The hard truth many of you need to hear: 8 reasons you aren’t successful with women.

[Rictor1]

..... that’s because most Latinas in metro NYC are either white Latinas or black Latinas. The white ones are just Spanish speaking white chicks. The Puerto Ricans and Dominicans are just black women that speak Spanish. The black dude you see with them is probably Spanish speaking himself.

No, not talking about dark Dominican guys. I'm talking about BLACK guys. As in African American, or Jamaican, or Haitian, etc. with Latinas. Are you in NY as well?

 

[EyeBRollin]

No, not talking about dark Dominican guys. I'm talking about BLACK guys. As in African American, or Jamaican, or Haitian, etc. with Latinas. Are you in NY as well?

Yes, I've been dating all over NYC Metro. My point was:

How do you tell the difference between an African American, Ghanian, Jamaican, Haitian, or dark skinned Dominican, Panamanian, Hondoran, Columbian, Puerto Rican just by looking at them? You can't.

For the record, Haitians and Brazalians are both Latinos.

 

[Rictor1]

Yes, I've been dating all over NYC Metro. My point was:

How do you tell the difference between an African American, Ghanian, Jamaican, Haitian, or dark skinned Dominican, Panamanian, Hondoran, Columbian, Puerto Rican just by looking at them? You can't.

For the record, Haitians and Brazalians are both Latinos.

Haitians from Haiti are Latino? I didn't know that. I guess I learned something new.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Black men are far from the bottom the “dating queue” anyone with real life experience In dating knows this.
Your google studies don’t mean anything. Who were they even made by thats makes them credible?

It's not a "google studies." The data is from Facebook. Their analysis is based upon a compilation of 2.4 million heterosexual interactions (more experience than you've had?). Read the article. I linked you to it.

Your post is entitled "the hard truth." It appears that you can't handle the truth.

Actually you are both correct.

Okcupid did a similar study. My experience is spot on with this assessment. Rarely do non-black women ever respond to my online dating messages. It's always been that way.

However, in meeting non-black women in person, I've had far more success. In speed dating, soft approaches, and just social networking I've pulled decent looking white and asian women that I know would not bother online.

My hypothesis is because online dating is essentially a buffet, people can screen more logically. In person, attraction is already there and can trump everything.

 

[EyeBRollin]

Haitians from Haiti are Latino? I didn't know that. I guess I learned something new.

Yes, Haitian Creole is derived from French, a Latin Language. "Latino" includes Brazil and Haiti.

 

[biggoal]

Actually you are both correct.

Okcupid did a similar study. My experience is spot on with this assessment. Rarely do non-black women ever respond to my online dating messages. It's always been that way.

However, in meeting non-black women in person, I've had far more success. In speed dating, soft approaches, and just social networking I've pulled decent looking white and asian women that I know would not bother online.

My hypothesis is because online dating is essentially a buffet, people can screen more logically. In person, attraction is already there and can trump everything.

OKcupid is worse than POF quality wise. Some of the nastiest things I've ever seen on there. I Don't know if their study means much lol.

 

[biggoal]

Not sure if I agree with #6. While i agree being 5'11+ does get you noticed more and makes you stand out (I'm 6 feet), I see men under 5'8" with attractive women all the time.
One of my coworkers is this 5'0 adorable 25 year old with a spunky personality. Her boyfriend is 5'2 and average at best looking.
Yet, Im 6 feet tall and fit and single!
I have no sympathy for short guys!

5 foot 2 you're screwed unless you have money.

I did work with this PR guy (white PR) who was only about 5 2, 5 3 And he always had hot girls in his life.

However he was in very good shape, thick with muscle and has two black belts and does competitive mma fighting and other martial arts. Very short guy but very strong and probably best most Chads arses easily. Only average looking at beat, was about 40 though but very strong and smooth talker.

 

[biggoal]

This guy doesn't have money.

But he's in very good shape and Puerto Rican. I don't know what it is about those guys but PR guys even for being short seem to do okay with the ladies still. A lot of PR men have decent women despite being on the smaller side.

 

[biggoal]

True, I'm close to 6 foot when flat footed and feel taller than 80% of men when I am out.

However, New Jersey does have alot of short guys. I bet in the Midwest with the high German and Anglo-Saxon population, 6 feet feels rather average.

I'm from Missouri and the people in Floriduh seem taller, well and fatter too and I'm from St. Louis which has high German genetics. However MOST of Missouri outside of KC and Stl is more Scott Irish and English as it's basically part of the South still for all intents.

I'm barely 5-9 and I went to high school down here in FL and graduated in 2002. The boys and girls we were all quite a bit shorter than the kids today I will say that. Even at 18 and a senior in high school we didn't have a lot of guys 6 foot or over 6 foot granted you might still grow an inch after high school.

 

[EyeBRollin]

I'm from Missouri and the people in Floriduh seem taller, well and fatter too and I'm from St. Louis which has high German genetics. However MOST of Missouri outside of KC and Stl is more Scott Irish and English as it's basically part of the South still for all intents.

I'm barely 5-9 and I went to high school down here in FL and graduated in 2002. The boys and girls we were all quite a bit shorter than the kids today I will say that. Even at 18 and a senior in high school we didn't have a lot of guys 6 foot or over 6 foot granted you might still grow an inch after high school.

Once again, your anecdotal study is not true. Average U.S. height is decreasing.

 

[cola]

When I was in California I saw short Mexican gangsters pull the hottest white chicks daily at the clubs. It was like the more ghetto, tatted up, and belligerent these guys were, the more the hot blonde chicks went for them. Sosuave has a tendency to paint black and white pictures but experience has taught me that meat market game belongs to tall handsome guys and short Mexican gangsters.

Thats literally two different types of guys on opposite ends of the spectrum attracting the same demographic of chicks in the same venues. So how does that fit in to any of these lists?

Women love gangsters. Growing up in Baltimore I’ve known some real bad asses. I mean, Murderers. I’m not saying that in a bragging way like it’s cool but I didn’t grow up with money and lived in some rough areas and have known some rough dudes.
They all had hot girlfriends, regardless of looks.

I'm from Missouri and the people in Floriduh seem taller, well and fatter too and I'm from St. Louis which has high German genetics. However MOST of Missouri outside of KC and Stl is more Scott Irish and English as it's basically part of the South still for all intents.

I'm barely 5-9 and I went to high school down here in FL and graduated in 2002. The boys and girls we were all quite a bit shorter than the kids today I will say that. Even at 18 and a senior in high school we didn't have a lot of guys 6 foot or over 6 foot granted you might still grow an inch after high school.

You graduated in 2002? I thought in another thread you said you were in your 40s?

 

[biggoal]

Once again, your anecdotal study is not true. Average U.S. height is decreasing.

Well something must be off then because nearly everyone on here disagrees. I can tell her in FL over the last 20 years big difference, especially in younger people. Quite a bit taller than when I was in high school not only taller but bigger bone as well. Women seem taller too. There is a thread on here too about women being taller lately.

 

[biggoal]

You graduated in 2002? I thought in another thread you said you were in your 40s?

LOL, hell no!!

Actually that's another subject though. Due to being skinny and young looking people don't take me as seriously, especially older folks. They think I'm more like 25 or something and it hurts though when trying to pull women your own age when you look like a kid and get IDed for lotto tickets

 

[cola]

LOL, hell no!!

Actually that's another subject though. Due to being skinny and young looking people don't take me as seriously, especially older folks. They think I'm more like 25 or something and it hurts though when trying to pull women your own age when you look like a kid and get IDed for lotto tickets

You look like a kid at 38-39? I gotta see pictures.

 

[biggoal]

You look like a kid at 38-39? I gotta see pictures.

36 lol. I dont mean a kid but in my 20s. I also dress young still too. Like brand name hog.

 

[EyeBRollin]

LOL, hell no!!

Actually that's another subject though. Due to being skinny and young looking people don't take me as seriously, especially older folks. They think I'm more like 25 or something and it hurts though when trying to pull women your own age when you look like a kid and get IDed for lotto tickets

Gotta gain some weight my friend. 50 lbs would be revolutionary for you.

 

[biggoal]

Gotta gain some weight my friend. 50 lbs would be revolutionary for you.

That would put me over 170lb! Unless I got super thick muscles, meat head I'd be overweight.

 

[Prettyboy Dee]

36 lol. I dont mean a kid but in my 20s. I also dress young still too. Like brand name hog.

That's a good thing dude not a bad thing, facepalm.....

Being 36 and looking like your in your 20s is a bad thing to you? Lol

And if people dont take you serious its because you carry yourself like someone who shouldn't be respected, has nothing to do with your size or looks.

I'm 26 with a baby face and only weigh 140 pounds with clothes on, people take me serious, sure I have had people think I'm soft or weak but its because they say I'm a pretty boy but once they spend some time around they know wassup.

 

[biggoal]

You look like a kid at 38-39? I gotta see pictures.

check your pm

 

[captainsemiobvious]

Once again, your anecdotal study is not true. Average U.S. height is decreasing.

It's strange that so many people can't process the fact that a couple of isolated anecdotes don't disprove a general pattern.

"My cousin Vinnie is Sicilian but he's 7'5", therefore this is proof that Sicilians are a race of giants." No, it's not proof. It's one piece of evidence, namely an outlier, among hundreds of thousands or millions of data points.