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Lol so i need to keep doing that. I mean damn its like she saying the puzzy is yours.
Yeap, im lonewolf but i lead.. Girls and men.. Men were too intimidated to having conversation with me.. Yeah.. I see dermatologist who help a lots, eat healthy,, powerlift and cardio once per week, skin care regimine, retinoic acid aka retinoid (medical grade) are my fountain of youth. And youre good to go. Its easy.
 

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Yes, with heavy conditioning. I like lean muscle so I don't want to weight that.
Umm don't you run like 5 miles a day... you already do heavy conditioning. All you have to do is add weight lifting and eat a lot, and you will build lean muscle and not fat because of how much cardio you do
 

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Umm don't you run like 5 miles a day... you already do heavy conditioning. All you have to do is add weight lifting and eat a lot, and you will build lean muscle and not fat because of how much cardio you do
But the right foods right? not the McDonalds and Buger King I eat a few times a week or cookies.
 

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But the right foods right? not the McDonalds and Buger King I eat a few times a week or cookies.
It really doesn't matter with the amount of cardio you do, just make sure it's all protein based. Would it be better for your overall health to stop eating McDonalds, yes, but it's not necessary to have a good looking body if you work out enough
 

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5’9, 170 is not overweight.. especially with muscles.

I’m 5’7, 165-170 lbs and have visible abs and obliques.
I have a 55 year old Chad where I work. Well maybe former Chad since he's 55 now BUT he is in tip top shape for his age and looks healthy for his age and still has women in his 40s on up approach him but he's married.

When he was young like 20 he was super skinny, more thin than me. He is 5-10 so a little taller than me and weighed a bit less too! He said women would reject him left and right at the clubs and even said he was too thin and thought it was a joke how he looked. He even wore fancier clothes and all but didn't work. He decided he needed to bulk up. he got beast mode and said when he became bulked up the women started to talk to him more and were all over him some of the same ones as well. He hardly ever eats fast food though, mostly home cooked, no soda or beer. Mostly water or tea he drinks as well and little sugar.
 
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When I was in California I saw short Mexican gangsters pull the hottest white chicks daily at the clubs. It was like the more ghetto, tatted up, and belligerent these guys were, the more the hot blonde chicks went for them. Sosuave has a tendency to paint black and white pictures but experience has taught me that meat market game belongs to tall handsome guys and short Mexican gangsters.

Thats literally two different types of guys on opposite ends of the spectrum attracting the same demographic of chicks in the same venues. So how does that fit in to any of these lists?
This guy is completely delusional.
 

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Why you aren’t doing well on OLD/Bars/Social Circle:

1.) You are over weight
. Being a fat guy puts you right at the bottom. It’s one of the worst things you can be. While there are some chicks who dig fat guys you are severely limiting yourself by being overweight and or having a large stomach. They automatically assume you have a little wiener and are gonna lay on top of them with all your weight and crush them and sweat bacon grease all over them. The thought of sex with you is repulsive.

2.) You dress like sh*t. You can be the top engineer, a home owner, graduated top in your class yea yea, none of that sh*t matters if you dress like a hobo in your down time. Invest in some clothes, nice ones. If you are super casual make sure you sneakers look new/newish, dress shoes are polished. Always iron. Most importantly, more important than designers or brand names, make sure your clothes fit well. The tailor is your friend. All dress pants and jackets should be tailored but you can also do the same for jeans.

3.) You look/smell dirty. Dirty fingernails, chapped lips, bags under your eyes. You just look like you don’t have good personal hygiene. Be a little more metro sexual. Once a month go get a manicure. It’s $20 and feels great. Shower daily. Invest in cologne. I have a 30 bottle cologne collection and can give you safe blind buys if anyone wants.

4.) Your breath smells like it’s a little man in your mouth taking a poo this is the number one overlooked thing in dating. You get close to a woman and your breath smells anything other than minty fresh GAME OVER. Brush twice daily, get your tounge

5,) You have no social skills and say dumb sh*t all the time. There is always that guy who in the social group has to share his controversial view points and go on and on about them. Wants to talk about the “radical left” and why “Marxism is good”.. and how trump is making America great again.
Keep that sh*t to yourself. You are entitled to your own opinion but that **** isn’t gonna get you laid. Just keep things light and funny.

And it wouldn’t be a cola thread without the controversial section:

Things you can’t do anything about and just have to compensate for:

6.) You are below 5’8.
I’m sorry. There is a large female population who just isnt going to date you. It sucks, being under 5’8 doesn’t make you less of a man. The strongest kid I know is a 5’5 ex college wrestler. He would slam any 6’2 guy on his neck and ground and pound him till he is in a coma. But it’s just the reality of the dating game.

7.) You are anything other than black or white. It is what it is man, the number one sought after man is white. Even me as a black guy have accepted there is a good amount of women who wouldn’t date me, no matter what I say.. Brown/Asian/Dark Latinos are going to have an even larger segment of the population who just won’t date you. I apologize, is what it is.

8.) You have an ugly face. Again unfortunate, some facial features you just can’t fix. Doesn’t mean you can’t get girls, you just are limited and probably won’t do well on OLD. You have to rely more on personality and status.
2.) Chad can dress like shiit and still slay. Heck, he can even have a hairstyle that looks like a triangle. :rofl:

4.) Yes, brush & mouthwash. And don't smoke or dip unless you're macking at the Trailer Park. :eek:

5.) Chad can say stupid sh!t and still slay.

6.) :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

8.) An ugly face requires an incredible amount of success in other areas, like $$$ or fame, to make up for it - and lifting doesn't help, as all it results in is a gymcel. It is virtually immediately over for ugcels.
 

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It only recently dawned on me about how my nice clothes fit, slacks, dress shirts, designer jeans, etc. and the importance of having them tailored. Once I did, I started receiving unsolicited compliments from coworkers about how nice I looked wearing the same stuff I wore before. Fitment is def key when focusing on your clothes.
Especially if you have a muscular body. I don't think the fit of pants matters all that much unless you are trying to show how much junk you have. :eek:
 
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2.) Chad can dress like **** and still slay. Heck, he can even have a hairstyle that looks like a triangle. :rofl:

4.) Yes, brush & mouthwash. And don't smoke or dip unless you're macking at the Trailer Park. :eek:

5.) Chad can say stupid sh!t and still slay.

6.) :mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad::mad:

8.) An ugly face required an incredible amount of success in other areas, like $$$ or fame, to make up for it - and lifting doesn't help, as all it results in is a gymcel. It is virtually immediately over for ugcels.
All true. Meaning all that really matters is looks.

Not clothing, not "game," not social skills, just appearance.
 

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Especially if you have a muscular body. I don't think the fit of pants matters all that much unless you are trying to show how much junk you have. :eek:
The one problem though if you're in shape and want to wear tighter, form fitting shirts is if you conceal carry. That might be a bit of a problem. In class they tell you to buy shirts a little bigger.

If I lived in Missouri still that wouldn't be a problem because it's an open carry state and I wouldn't care if I was printing or my shirt kept lifting up because nothing can be done about it. Here in Floriduh it's illegal. Even accidental printing law enforcement hates it down here. I don't know what FL problem is but the state is so much more anti gun than MO where I'm from.
 

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The one problem though if you're in shape and want to wear tighter, form fitting shirts is if you conceal carry. That might be a bit of a problem. In class they tell you to buy shirts a little bigger.

If I lived in Missouri still that wouldn't be a problem because it's an open carry state and I wouldn't care if I was printing or my shirt kept lifting up because nothing can be done about it. Here in Floriduh it's illegal. Even accidental printing law enforcement hates it down here. I don't know what FL problem is but the state is so much more anti gun than MO where I'm from.
Are you saying that folks can just walk around with a holster in MO, like it's the Wild West? o_O
 

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I'd add FACE to that.
But I see meat heads who have the typical ugly meat head face but huge chest and arms will get decent, younger women. You know the kind with the huge chest, arms, but thin legs because they only lift and a butter face.
 

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Are you saying that folks can just walk around with a holster in MO, like it's the Wild West? o_O
Yes. Missouri is also a constitutional conceal carry state. Which means you DONT need a permit to conceal carry in MO like you do here in FL. Open carry no permit as well BUT cities can make ordinances against open carry BUT with the optional conceal carry permit you can override it and open carry. You can even open carry an AK47 in the ghetto in north Stl and nothing can be done.

A couple years ago the Brady Foundation gave MO 4 points out of 50 for gun laws LOL. Was tied for 48th in the country. Missouri, OKlahoma, Kansas, Arkansas, Kentucky all very loose carry laws now. No permit needed.
 

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But I see meat heads who have the typical ugly meat head face but huge chest and arms will get decent, younger women. You know the kind with the huge chest, arms, but thin legs because they only lift and a butter face.
Thin legs big chest are turn off to many women, its like a cartoon you see in kids show.
 

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Thin legs big chest are turn off to many women, its like a cartoon you see in kids show.
I think it looks silly but you see a lot of that. The guys looked juiced but they still get hot chicks despite being a douche. I guess it's like a lot of men dont mind kind of a butter face of they had Huge boobs and nice legs.

Not disagreeing but I see a lot of those douchy meat head and meat faces with hot girls.
 
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I'll have to respectfully disagree...

While I've read research conducted on O.L.D. dating preferences and according to those research a lot of women listed that they dont prefer Black men....

But surveys and polls cant dismiss what we can observe with our own 2 eyes.... And from what I've seen black men are slaying hotties left and right....

Here in L.A. black guys are slaying all the hotties... I also spend a lot of weekends out in Las Vegas and everytime I hit up Caesars, Belagio, Aria, Venetian etc I'm seeing tall fit Tyrones with Stacy's, Lacey's and Tiffany's everywhere....

From my observations black guys do well with white women but poorly with Latinas and Asian women....
Which neighborhoods/clubs/bars are you talking about? I used to roll out with a black wing in LA. Light skinned dude, nerdy in appearance but with athletic/muscular build.

He found a white girlfriend. She had a below average face w/ yellow teeth, tall, skinny body, no hips or tits or ass. She was hard to classify since she was thin, but with an ugly face lol.

He didn't have much success cold approaching. Then again, he was pretty ugly himself. His girlfriend looked like a white female version of himself, come to think of it.

Westside has very few blacks. Sunset Blvd. caters to a more upscale, affluent crowd with few blacks. Santa Monica has few if any blacks. Same thing in the valley: few blacks.

LA is extremely segregated and most blacks are concentrated in Inglewood, Compton, Long Beach (but not really), you know, the hood.

I saw some black guys game out in some of the seedier clubs in Hollywood. There were plenty of hood white girls to choose from. They seemed to prefer black men.

So, no, I didn't see "black guys slaying everywhere with staceys" as you put it. In certain specific low income neighborhoods, yes, but not across the board.

I haven't been to Vegas in a while. Fvck those broads are old. Amazing if you're into haggard 55+ year old horny broads. They were everywhere. Tons of 30+ women too. Lots and lots of Latina fatties. There were very few hot 20 something women, esp. in their early 20's.

It was like a cattle call for fat and old women.
 

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I think it looks silly but you see a lot of that. The guys looked juiced but they still get hot chicks despite being a douche. I guess it's like a lot of men dont mind kind of a butter face of they had Huge boobs and nice legs.

Not disagreeing but I see a lot of those douchy meat head and meat faces with hot girls.
Should be The girl aint that goood either
 
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