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    About to go No Contact with my 1.5y LTR. What should I tell her?

    She broke up about 1.5 months ago, we tried to stay friends, but it's too hard for the both of us. Here's the deal. I'm not doing this to get back with her per se. I'm doing this to fully get over her. However. Given the occasion, I definitely would consider getting back with her. However, I...
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    How much damage was done here? Cried in front of my LTR

    The stupidest reason too. We had a mouse in her apartment, it walked on a mice trap that is basically a piece of plastic with a peanut butter scent covered in glue. After that, I had to kill it, as she is scared of mice. And I cried. Yep. I felt so horrible for killing that mouse (no, I am...
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    How to go from pretty, to hot, to gorgeous, to dreamy?

    Your genes will only take you so far, and then so will the way you dress, and the work you do. Obviously you can work on all these aspects at the same time (and should) to make the transition faster. The only issue is clothes. If you are a skinny guy now and buy a new wardrobe, and eventually...
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    So... My girlfriend is seeing a radical feminist psychologist -_-

    She recently lost her father, and she decided she needed someone to talk to, to sort things out, which in itself I find nothing wrong with. However, what started as an innocent visit to rationalize her feeling of loss became a crusade by her psychologist, who is a bloody radical feminist...
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    Sleeping with self-confidence audio tapes playing in a loop - does it do anything?

    Title pretty much asks it all. Does it have any sort of positive effect on our confidence by affecting our subconscious?
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    What's my next move with this girl? Post second date, still no kiss-close

    First date was pool, she seemed to be really into me, for some reason I hadn't kiss-close on that date Second date, we went for drinks. Here's the kicker. Her eye contact showed interest, but the kino said otherwise. I tried three times in about 1.5h to put my hand on her forearm, and all...
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    Met a girl online, banged her, what next?

    Here's a rundown of how things went: Had some sex talk over texts, we had agreed that after meeting she was coming over to my place Met for a few beers, she came back to my place Banged her that night and the morning (I made her *** five times, three at night twice in the morning - I doubt...
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    Went on a date with a girl from day-game, what now?

    Usually I'm very busy so I meet a lot of chicks online, and it's a lot easier with them, I guess the fact that they are online makes them a bit more desperate/lower standards/eager for human affection lol, so I never really have an issue. However recently I started having more time, so I did...
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    Having a hard time to reach climax during sex

    O.K. so I haven't been sexually active for very long now (I'm 23), now I started sweeing a girl to whom I'm quite attracted, and we get along quite well and so far sex with her is great and happens often and every time I see her. However, I find myself having a hard time cumming. I've only been...
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    A few problems I've noted in users on here

    This is basically a sum-up of many observations I've done recently. As you can see, I joined a looooooooooooooooooong time ago and was a total mess. I stayed on this forum for so long absorbing information like a sponge but never putting it to use, until I left here to go in the real world and...
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    So I just discovered The Big Bang Theory (yes late)

    I don't watch T.V. usually but I'm staying for the week at my mom's place so downloaded the episodes. This **** is hilarious However, more to the point of this forum, does anyone feel represented by the guys? I don't know about you, but I feel like at some point in my social life I was quite...
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    What exactly is a **** test?

    I've always been confused about it. Would my example be one? Had a second date confirmed with a girl, she said that she's kind of sick so unless I don't mind the risk of getting sick myself we should reschedule, and when I said I couldn't care less she readily agreed to said date
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    A piece of advice given by a female friend about a girl I'm gaming

    Quick background: A girl I'm trying to get with has recently told me that she wasn't ready to move on yet seeing as she just came out of a long relationship (about 5 years), that she needs space and time to sort things out, and she told me this after we've made out twice. So my friend told me...
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    One on one coffee dates with female friends

    How often do you guys do this, outta curiosity? Or do you avoid them at all costs? I tend to enjoy them, it's a change from action-orientated outings that I do with male friends, I also find that it helps practice my conversation skills Depending on how busy I am, I tend to do this at...
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    What's a typical ratio for day cold approach

    Ratios for: Approaches to numbers, numbers to dates, dates to sex I usually have a 3:10, 1:10 and 1:10 roughly I'm wondering if I'm doing something wrong or if you guys get similar results?
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    Where could I have gone wrong (been given a fake number)

    Not so much that it bothers me, more that I am curious as to where I could have gone wrong. To the best of my memory, here is what happened: I went to my girl A's house (the one that gave me a fake number) with girl B (my friend) and another male friend, C. I was basically lifting both B and...
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    How to break a triangle? And how to make sure not to land in one?

    Two scenarios here: 1) It's happened before, I used to see this girl quite often who had a boyfriend... We would basically do loads of activities together (and really awesome stuff too, she was really into my lifestyle), kino was high, flirting was high, but it stayed at that level. On the...
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    What do you guys do when you're at home?

    Whenever I have free time (no activity planned and not going out with friends) I try to occupy myself by going out for a rollerblade or bike ride It doesn't happen often, but on occasions I am at home with absolutely nothing to do (chores all done, not willing/cannot go outdoors). Usually I...
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    Is it better to show a girl your interest, or put it on hold till the right moment?

    I'll explain the title, I didn't really know how to verbalize it. Let's say I pulled a move on one of the girls (in bold simply so I don't hear the answer "spin more plates") I'm pursuing from one of my social circle, it didn't give anything though. However, I'm not going to abandon this option...
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    Am I "different" from the norm?

    I started asking myself this question recently... The way I tend to interact with my friends is mostly in group. I will very rarely hang out with just one friend (not because I'm uncomfortable or anything), except maybe one or two of my male friends, and it can happen more with my female...
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