Would you date/marry a girl who doesn't want sex?

[princess_124]

Let's just say she doesn't want sex...would you still stay with her? She is straight by the way...

 

[sylvester the cat]

no procreation. no point.

move on.

 

[RangerMIke]

No.

 

[mynameisntNigel]

I'd change her mind!

 

[Serenity]

Let's say you do, wouldn't it be interesting to voice that and ask how you can be sure there is sexual compatibility? Relationship is a negotiation process, more in common means easier to reach agreement. Sex is commonly one of the variables that are hard or next to impossible to negotiate, it's usually too deeply rooted as a personal ideal.

I would call quits and say the terms are unacceptable.

 

[GS750]

You mean I can hit it? Ever? Then no.

 

[Thorninmyside]

Wouldn't even buy her a happy meal, let alone anything else. Sounds like buying a mess with with a long story attached.

 

[mangotot]

When you say dosen't want sex, does that mean just with you or no sex at all whatsoever with anyone. You certainly don't want a cuckold scenario.

 

[The411]

I'm dating a virgin who will not have sex until marriage. That's fine, she has the slickest tongue ever. Sit back, relax and enjoy the ride dude.

 

[nismo-4]

You mean do I want to be a beta orbiter? Hell no. But I'm sure some dumb dude will.

 

[The411]

You mean do I want to be a beta orbiter? Hell no. But I'm sure some dumb dude will.

Yeah, go fuvk yourself. Your only mode of thought is fvck or be fvcked. Why not rub two d!cks together and call it your Friday night?

 

[devilkingx2]

that sounds extremely dumb.

what's the point of a gf you can't have sex with? that's just a platonic female friend who gets jealous.

UNLESS, it's like high school or something, where she'll do anything but sex(whether that includes anal or just the first 3 bases) to remain pure or because she's not ready or something like that.

 

[nzsnowman]

Negative.

 

[Cremasta]

I dated a girl like that for five months in my early AFC days.
It was a religious thing for her.

Not a lot of fond memories there.

 

[marmel75]

Let's just say she doesn't want sex...would you still stay with her? She is straight by the way...

For what purpose? To pretend you are gay? I've got plenty of guys I'm not into having sex with, why would I want to marry someone like that?

 

[Between_The_Lines]

If my pen1s no longer worked or my sex drive died off completely, maybe, but since neither is the case, I'll round UP and say there's about a zero percent chance I'd entertain the idea.

 

[DragonBlood]

If I felt a connection with this person and she was compatible with my life I probably would consider it. However, it would be on the condition that she is supportive in my pursuit of other women and mistresses to satisfy a basic need she is choosing or not able to meet. This is pretty common in relationships where one partner ends up disabled years later through an accident or disease etc. Just because they married you does not give them the right to suppress your sexuality.

I dont think its really my place to judge why a person doesnt want sex with you, but you would have to question why they decided to marry you in the first place if they didnt feel a strong attraction? Why? If I later discovered they werent sexually abstaining but actually sleeping with other guys and just not with me... well that would be a divorce because she obviously is trying to exploit the situation AND leave me unsatisfied.

 

[Tortendieb]

Not on this forum. Get a guy from India, they do that stuff.

She would have to be a VERY special woman to demand my abstinence. You see, it's a great sacrifice. What can she offer in turn?

 

[mangotot]

Not on this forum. Get a guy from India, they do that stuff.

She would have to be a VERY special woman to demand my abstinence. You see, it's a great sacrifice. What can she offer in turn?

Maybe you could be guy who is dirt poor and her daddy is a multi millionaire giving you a lifestyle and comfort you could only dream of.

 

[Albatross953]

Would you put gas in a car that won't start?