princess_124
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Let's just say she doesn't want sex...would you still stay with her? She is straight by the way...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Would you date/marry a girl who doesn't want sex?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
sylvester the cat
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no procreation. no point.
move on.
move on.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
No.
mynameisntNigel
Don Juan
I'd change her mind!
Serenity
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Let's say you do, wouldn't it be interesting to voice that and ask how you can be sure there is sexual compatibility? Relationship is a negotiation process, more in common means easier to reach agreement. Sex is commonly one of the variables that are hard or next to impossible to negotiate, it's usually too deeply rooted as a personal ideal.
I would call quits and say the terms are unacceptable.
I would call quits and say the terms are unacceptable.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Thorninmyside
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Wouldn't even buy her a happy meal, let alone anything else. Sounds like buying a mess with with a long story attached.
nismo-4
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You mean do I want to be a beta orbiter? Hell no. But I'm sure some dumb dude will.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
that sounds extremely dumb.
what's the point of a gf you can't have sex with? that's just a platonic female friend who gets jealous.
UNLESS, it's like high school or something, where she'll do anything but sex(whether that includes anal or just the first 3 bases) to remain pure or because she's not ready or something like that.
what's the point of a gf you can't have sex with? that's just a platonic female friend who gets jealous.
UNLESS, it's like high school or something, where she'll do anything but sex(whether that includes anal or just the first 3 bases) to remain pure or because she's not ready or something like that.
nzsnowman
Don Juan
Negative.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Between_The_Lines
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If my pen1s no longer worked or my sex drive died off completely, maybe, but since neither is the case, I'll round UP and say there's about a zero percent chance I'd entertain the idea.
DragonBlood
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If I felt a connection with this person and she was compatible with my life I probably would consider it. However, it would be on the condition that she is supportive in my pursuit of other women and mistresses to satisfy a basic need she is choosing or not able to meet. This is pretty common in relationships where one partner ends up disabled years later through an accident or disease etc. Just because they married you does not give them the right to suppress your sexuality.
I dont think its really my place to judge why a person doesnt want sex with you, but you would have to question why they decided to marry you in the first place if they didnt feel a strong attraction? Why? If I later discovered they werent sexually abstaining but actually sleeping with other guys and just not with me... well that would be a divorce because she obviously is trying to exploit the situation AND leave me unsatisfied.
I dont think its really my place to judge why a person doesnt want sex with you, but you would have to question why they decided to marry you in the first place if they didnt feel a strong attraction? Why? If I later discovered they werent sexually abstaining but actually sleeping with other guys and just not with me... well that would be a divorce because she obviously is trying to exploit the situation AND leave me unsatisfied.
Tortendieb
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Not on this forum. Get a guy from India, they do that stuff.
She would have to be a VERY special woman to demand my abstinence. You see, it's a great sacrifice. What can she offer in turn?
She would have to be a VERY special woman to demand my abstinence. You see, it's a great sacrifice. What can she offer in turn?
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
Would you put gas in a car that won't start?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.