princess_124
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Let's just say she doesn't want sex...would you still stay with her? She is straight by the way...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Would you date/marry a girl who doesn't want sex?
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
sylvester the cat
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no procreation. no point.
move on.
move on.
RangerMIke
Master Don Juan
No.
mynameisntNigel
Don Juan
I'd change her mind!
Serenity
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Let's say you do, wouldn't it be interesting to voice that and ask how you can be sure there is sexual compatibility? Relationship is a negotiation process, more in common means easier to reach agreement. Sex is commonly one of the variables that are hard or next to impossible to negotiate, it's usually too deeply rooted as a personal ideal.
I would call quits and say the terms are unacceptable.
I would call quits and say the terms are unacceptable.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thorninmyside
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Wouldn't even buy her a happy meal, let alone anything else. Sounds like buying a mess with with a long story attached.
nismo-4
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You mean do I want to be a beta orbiter? Hell no. But I'm sure some dumb dude will.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
that sounds extremely dumb.
what's the point of a gf you can't have sex with? that's just a platonic female friend who gets jealous.
UNLESS, it's like high school or something, where she'll do anything but sex(whether that includes anal or just the first 3 bases) to remain pure or because she's not ready or something like that.
what's the point of a gf you can't have sex with? that's just a platonic female friend who gets jealous.
UNLESS, it's like high school or something, where she'll do anything but sex(whether that includes anal or just the first 3 bases) to remain pure or because she's not ready or something like that.
nzsnowman
Don Juan
Negative.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Between_The_Lines
Master Don Juan
If my pen1s no longer worked or my sex drive died off completely, maybe, but since neither is the case, I'll round UP and say there's about a zero percent chance I'd entertain the idea.
DragonBlood
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If I felt a connection with this person and she was compatible with my life I probably would consider it. However, it would be on the condition that she is supportive in my pursuit of other women and mistresses to satisfy a basic need she is choosing or not able to meet. This is pretty common in relationships where one partner ends up disabled years later through an accident or disease etc. Just because they married you does not give them the right to suppress your sexuality.
I dont think its really my place to judge why a person doesnt want sex with you, but you would have to question why they decided to marry you in the first place if they didnt feel a strong attraction? Why? If I later discovered they werent sexually abstaining but actually sleeping with other guys and just not with me... well that would be a divorce because she obviously is trying to exploit the situation AND leave me unsatisfied.
I dont think its really my place to judge why a person doesnt want sex with you, but you would have to question why they decided to marry you in the first place if they didnt feel a strong attraction? Why? If I later discovered they werent sexually abstaining but actually sleeping with other guys and just not with me... well that would be a divorce because she obviously is trying to exploit the situation AND leave me unsatisfied.
Tortendieb
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Not on this forum. Get a guy from India, they do that stuff.
She would have to be a VERY special woman to demand my abstinence. You see, it's a great sacrifice. What can she offer in turn?
She would have to be a VERY special woman to demand my abstinence. You see, it's a great sacrifice. What can she offer in turn?
Albatross953
Master Don Juan
Would you put gas in a car that won't start?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.