Women flaking

[Suave88]

Well other responses support the fact that I threw the ball back at her. If i would have asked her out knowing she already cancel on me twice then im basically telling her she can cancel on me any time she wants.

Did she give you an excuse why she cancelled twice????

 

[151674]

Because you had to make the move when she called you. That was when she was available and not before when you made the move and she cancelled twice. Again, power struggle between genders. It's when you want!, no! It is when she wants!
Now, no one won. A lot of relationships start like this and very few materialize. Understand you own no one. She is free to cancel you at any time and you are free to cancel her azz at any time. But well, it has to be your way and not her way????
Her called became a validation to her because you didn't make a move. She was looking for another kind of validation, but you thought she wanted to values you are a man based on your definition of man

Its not about having it my way its about having self respect and values. Yes she is free to cancel on me but that dont mean I should keep tolerated it. Go watch Coach Corey wayne video about cancel dates.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yep so lately I aint been chasing her I just been talking to other women.

Best thing you can do. Get a lot of fvcking in.

 

[151674]

Did she give you an excuse why she cancelled twice????

The first excuse was she was in the store with her mom and they were gonna be in there long. Second excuse was she couldnt meet me at the time we had scheduled. She never offer to reschedule in both cases so I took it as she was no longer interested

 

[Suave88]

How many times you go out before she cancelled you twice?

 

[151674]

How many times you go out before she cancelled you twice?

I went out twice to have a drink

 

[Suave88]

I went out twice to have a drink

And for how long you knew her before asking her out. She is either new at the job or you are new at it.

 

[151674]

And for how long you knew her before asking her out. She is either new at the job or you are new at it.

Shes new at the job

 

[Suave88]

Shes new at the job

I can tell that. It is always some1 new. Some1 has to be new. But for how long? I would have kissed her on the second time.

 

[151674]

I can tell that. It is always some1 new. Some1 has to be new. But for how long? I would have kissed her on the second time.

Shes been new for about 7 months. Do you agree with the no contact

 

[Suave88]

Shes been new for about 7 months. Do you agree with the no contact

Let me think.i am at work now.

 

[151674]

Ok

 

[151674]

Let me think.i am at work now.

I have another female im going have a drink with tomorrow. We see how that goes.

 

[Suave88]

I have another female im going have a drink with tomorrow. We see how that goes.

No. You don't have another female. You have another date with a different woman.
If she is not giving you head, you don't have her.
Don't confuse terms.

 

[151674]

No. You don't have another female. You have another date with a different woman.
If she is not giving you head, you don't have her.
Don't confuse terms.

Lol well im making a move this time so forget the other female. Im expanding my options instead of dealing with the power struggle

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Lol well im making a move this time so forget the other female. Im expanding my options instead of dealing with the power struggle

That is how you deal with it.

 

[151674]

That is how you deal with it.

Ok let me asked u do u deal with the power struggle?

 

[Suave88]

Lol well im making a move this time so forget the other female. Im expanding my options instead of dealing with the power struggle

Yeah..... You can make a move with this female, and the next one, and the next one, this year, next year, and in the next year. But you are on sosuave because she drove you here and she is who you like, not this female, the next female or the female that next year will bring. Life puts people in your life for a reason, and you better get her when it is the time. It is always best to regret for what you did wrong, than to regret for what you didn't do.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Ok let me asked u do u deal with the power struggle?

You ignore her and fvck another bish. Thats how you have to handle. It dont work right unless shes thirsting for you.

 

[151674]

Yeah..... You can make a move with this female, and the next one, and the next one, this year, next year, and in the next year. But you are on sosuave because she drove you here and she is who you like, not this female, the next female or the female that next year will bring. Life puts people in your life for a reason, and you better get her when it is the time. It is always best to regret for what you did wrong, than to regret for what you didn't do.

Well I will get her when I get the opportunity again. I take your advice