"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Rocnavy said:
Well other responses support the fact that I threw the ball back at her. If i would have asked her out knowing she already cancel on me twice then im basically telling her she can cancel on me any time she wants.
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Did she give you an excuse why she cancelled twice????
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Because you had to make the move when she called you. That was when she was available and not before when you made the move and she cancelled twice. Again, power struggle between genders. It's when you want!, no! It is when she wants!
Now, no one won. A lot of relationships start like this and very few materialize. Understand you own no one. She is free to cancel you at any time and you are free to cancel her azz at any time. But well, it has to be your way and not her way????
Her called became a validation to her because you didn't make a move. She was looking for another kind of validation, but you thought she wanted to values you are a man based on your definition of man
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Its not about having it my way its about having self respect and values. Yes she is free to cancel on me but that dont mean I should keep tolerated it. Go watch Coach Corey wayne video about cancel dates.
 
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Did she give you an excuse why she cancelled twice????
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The first excuse was she was in the store with her mom and they were gonna be in there long. Second excuse was she couldnt meet me at the time we had scheduled. She never offer to reschedule in both cases so I took it as she was no longer interested
 
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How many times you go out before she cancelled you twice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I can tell that. It is always some1 new. Some1 has to be new. But for how long? I would have kissed her on the second time.
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Shes been new for about 7 months. Do you agree with the no contact
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Rocnavy said:
I have another female im going have a drink with tomorrow. We see how that goes.
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No. You don't have another female. You have another date with a different woman.
If she is not giving you head, you don't have her.
Don't confuse terms.
 
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No. You don't have another female. You have another date with a different woman.
If she is not giving you head, you don't have her.
Don't confuse terms.
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Lol well im making a move this time so forget the other female. Im expanding my options instead of dealing with the power struggle
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Lol well im making a move this time so forget the other female. Im expanding my options instead of dealing with the power struggle
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Yeah..... You can make a move with this female, and the next one, and the next one, this year, next year, and in the next year. But you are on sosuave because she drove you here and she is who you like, not this female, the next female or the female that next year will bring. Life puts people in your life for a reason, and you better get her when it is the time. It is always best to regret for what you did wrong, than to regret for what you didn't do.
 
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Yeah..... You can make a move with this female, and the next one, and the next one, this year, next year, and in the next year. But you are on sosuave because she drove you here and she is who you like, not this female, the next female or the female that next year will bring. Life puts people in your life for a reason, and you better get her when it is the time. It is always best to regret for what you did wrong, than to regret for what you didn't do.
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Well I will get her when I get the opportunity again. I take your advice
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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