"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Rocnavy said:
Well other responses support the fact that I threw the ball back at her. If i would have asked her out knowing she already cancel on me twice then im basically telling her she can cancel on me any time she wants.
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Did she give you an excuse why she cancelled twice????
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Because you had to make the move when she called you. That was when she was available and not before when you made the move and she cancelled twice. Again, power struggle between genders. It's when you want!, no! It is when she wants!
Now, no one won. A lot of relationships start like this and very few materialize. Understand you own no one. She is free to cancel you at any time and you are free to cancel her azz at any time. But well, it has to be your way and not her way????
Her called became a validation to her because you didn't make a move. She was looking for another kind of validation, but you thought she wanted to values you are a man based on your definition of man
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Its not about having it my way its about having self respect and values. Yes she is free to cancel on me but that dont mean I should keep tolerated it. Go watch Coach Corey wayne video about cancel dates.
 
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Did she give you an excuse why she cancelled twice????
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The first excuse was she was in the store with her mom and they were gonna be in there long. Second excuse was she couldnt meet me at the time we had scheduled. She never offer to reschedule in both cases so I took it as she was no longer interested
 
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How many times you go out before she cancelled you twice?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I can tell that. It is always some1 new. Some1 has to be new. But for how long? I would have kissed her on the second time.
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Shes been new for about 7 months. Do you agree with the no contact
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I have another female im going have a drink with tomorrow. We see how that goes.
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No. You don't have another female. You have another date with a different woman.
If she is not giving you head, you don't have her.
Don't confuse terms.
 
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No. You don't have another female. You have another date with a different woman.
If she is not giving you head, you don't have her.
Don't confuse terms.
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Lol well im making a move this time so forget the other female. Im expanding my options instead of dealing with the power struggle
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Lol well im making a move this time so forget the other female. Im expanding my options instead of dealing with the power struggle
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Yeah..... You can make a move with this female, and the next one, and the next one, this year, next year, and in the next year. But you are on sosuave because she drove you here and she is who you like, not this female, the next female or the female that next year will bring. Life puts people in your life for a reason, and you better get her when it is the time. It is always best to regret for what you did wrong, than to regret for what you didn't do.
 
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Yeah..... You can make a move with this female, and the next one, and the next one, this year, next year, and in the next year. But you are on sosuave because she drove you here and she is who you like, not this female, the next female or the female that next year will bring. Life puts people in your life for a reason, and you better get her when it is the time. It is always best to regret for what you did wrong, than to regret for what you didn't do.
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Well I will get her when I get the opportunity again. I take your advice
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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