Suave88
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Did she give you an excuse why she cancelled twice????
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
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Its not about having it my way its about having self respect and values. Yes she is free to cancel on me but that dont mean I should keep tolerated it. Go watch Coach Corey wayne video about cancel dates.
mrgoodstuff
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Best thing you can do. Get a lot of fvcking in.
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The first excuse was she was in the store with her mom and they were gonna be in there long. Second excuse was she couldnt meet me at the time we had scheduled. She never offer to reschedule in both cases so I took it as she was no longer interested
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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I went out twice to have a drink
Suave88
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And for how long you knew her before asking her out. She is either new at the job or you are new at it.
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Shes new at the job
Suave88
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I can tell that. It is always some1 new. Some1 has to be new. But for how long? I would have kissed her on the second time.
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Shes been new for about 7 months. Do you agree with the no contact
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Suave88
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Let me think.i am at work now.
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Ok
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I have another female im going have a drink with tomorrow. We see how that goes.
Suave88
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No. You don't have another female. You have another date with a different woman.
If she is not giving you head, you don't have her.
Don't confuse terms.
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Lol well im making a move this time so forget the other female. Im expanding my options instead of dealing with the power struggle
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
mrgoodstuff
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That is how you deal with it.
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Ok let me asked u do u deal with the power struggle?
Suave88
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Yeah..... You can make a move with this female, and the next one, and the next one, this year, next year, and in the next year. But you are on sosuave because she drove you here and she is who you like, not this female, the next female or the female that next year will bring. Life puts people in your life for a reason, and you better get her when it is the time. It is always best to regret for what you did wrong, than to regret for what you didn't do.
mrgoodstuff
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You ignore her and fvck another bish. Thats how you have to handle. It dont work right unless shes thirsting for you.
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Well I will get her when I get the opportunity again. I take your advice
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.