Suave88
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Did she give you an excuse why she cancelled twice????
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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Its not about having it my way its about having self respect and values. Yes she is free to cancel on me but that dont mean I should keep tolerated it. Go watch Coach Corey wayne video about cancel dates.
mrgoodstuff
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Best thing you can do. Get a lot of fvcking in.
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The first excuse was she was in the store with her mom and they were gonna be in there long. Second excuse was she couldnt meet me at the time we had scheduled. She never offer to reschedule in both cases so I took it as she was no longer interested
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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I went out twice to have a drink
Suave88
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And for how long you knew her before asking her out. She is either new at the job or you are new at it.
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Shes new at the job
Suave88
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I can tell that. It is always some1 new. Some1 has to be new. But for how long? I would have kissed her on the second time.
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Shes been new for about 7 months. Do you agree with the no contact
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Suave88
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Let me think.i am at work now.
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Ok
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I have another female im going have a drink with tomorrow. We see how that goes.
Suave88
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No. You don't have another female. You have another date with a different woman.
If she is not giving you head, you don't have her.
Don't confuse terms.
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Lol well im making a move this time so forget the other female. Im expanding my options instead of dealing with the power struggle
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
mrgoodstuff
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That is how you deal with it.
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Ok let me asked u do u deal with the power struggle?
Suave88
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Yeah..... You can make a move with this female, and the next one, and the next one, this year, next year, and in the next year. But you are on sosuave because she drove you here and she is who you like, not this female, the next female or the female that next year will bring. Life puts people in your life for a reason, and you better get her when it is the time. It is always best to regret for what you did wrong, than to regret for what you didn't do.
mrgoodstuff
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You ignore her and fvck another bish. Thats how you have to handle. It dont work right unless shes thirsting for you.
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Well I will get her when I get the opportunity again. I take your advice
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.