"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Can only lead a horse to water.... some are so stubborn they think its everyone else but them.... but if they look around the common denominator in all their problems is themselves.. so they refuse to accept responsibility and blame their unhappiness on everyone else.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Not necessarily true on the wife will mirror him. She could be hell bent upon controlling him or not allowing him to influence her.
She will mirror.
Husband displays exceptional leadership skills = wife will mirror by being an empowered follower to further embark on greater things.
Husband displays lack of leadership skills = wife will mirror as you suggested:
Leadership = control?
Ur delusions has been getting from bad to worse.
But we all know you're obsessed with wanting women to lead you.
Since it's not their natural inclinations, they all turned BPD or crazy after being basically forced into that position by ur rudderless leadership.
And now you know why ALL your ex ended up being BPD or NPD or some crazy shiet term you conveniently invented to cover up ur femininity.
But you'd still be blaming women forever....its never you right?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
user43770
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Soypilled? Haha
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Well there we go.....
You can not make her lust after you by talking. Action is all that works...get moving.
Leadership is abt empowerment and not abt control.
How you think will influence how you do things, I've said this on here more the enough.
And that's how I know you're never properly lead any of ur relationships.
Do you finally understand the difference between us?