"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Can only lead a horse to water.... some are so stubborn they think its everyone else but them.... but if they look around the common denominator in all their problems is themselves.. so they refuse to accept responsibility and blame their unhappiness on everyone else.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Not necessarily true on the wife will mirror him. She could be hell bent upon controlling him or not allowing him to influence her.
She will mirror.
Husband displays exceptional leadership skills = wife will mirror by being an empowered follower to further embark on greater things.
Husband displays lack of leadership skills = wife will mirror as you suggested:
Leadership = control?
Ur delusions has been getting from bad to worse.
But we all know you're obsessed with wanting women to lead you.
Since it's not their natural inclinations, they all turned BPD or crazy after being basically forced into that position by ur rudderless leadership.
And now you know why ALL your ex ended up being BPD or NPD or some crazy shiet term you conveniently invented to cover up ur femininity.
But you'd still be blaming women forever....its never you right?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Well there we go.....
You can not make her lust after you by talking. Action is all that works...get moving.
Leadership is abt empowerment and not abt control.
How you think will influence how you do things, I've said this on here more the enough.
And that's how I know you're never properly lead any of ur relationships.
Do you finally understand the difference between us?