"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Can only lead a horse to water.... some are so stubborn they think its everyone else but them.... but if they look around the common denominator in all their problems is themselves.. so they refuse to accept responsibility and blame their unhappiness on everyone else.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Not necessarily true on the wife will mirror him. She could be hell bent upon controlling him or not allowing him to influence her.
She will mirror.
Husband displays exceptional leadership skills = wife will mirror by being an empowered follower to further embark on greater things.
Husband displays lack of leadership skills = wife will mirror as you suggested:
Leadership = control?
Ur delusions has been getting from bad to worse.
But we all know you're obsessed with wanting women to lead you.
Since it's not their natural inclinations, they all turned BPD or crazy after being basically forced into that position by ur rudderless leadership.
And now you know why ALL your ex ended up being BPD or NPD or some crazy shiet term you conveniently invented to cover up ur femininity.
But you'd still be blaming women forever....its never you right?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Well there we go.....
You can not make her lust after you by talking. Action is all that works...get moving.
Leadership is abt empowerment and not abt control.
How you think will influence how you do things, I've said this on here more the enough.
And that's how I know you're never properly lead any of ur relationships.
Do you finally understand the difference between us?