But all of this stuff, last couple of posts included, doesn't speak to the legal aspect of this. For some reason, don't understand why, you're all acting like the legal aspect doesn't matter. So in your scenario, he tips his hand, lets her know he's just about to end it if she doesn't do what she's supposed to do, you know that's absolutely laughable right?
I'm not trying to be mean here but dam, she already knows what she's doing. She didn't forget to have sex with her husband, she didn't forget that he needs and wants sex, she just doesn't give a sh*t, literally. All of the excuses women give, I'm touched out, I'm tired, I'm not happy with my body image, I don't like your behavior towards me, blah, blah, blah, they're all excuses and she knows it. 6 months is absolute horsesh*t, no room to debate. I mean, unless she's dead, there's no excuse for that type of horsesh*t behavior.
So you think that while she knows what she's doing and simply doesn't care, that writing her a f*cking note and demanding certain behaviors is going to change her mind? How!!?? She is incentivized to behave badly, period. She's not going to lose the kids for being a frozen a$$hole. She's not going to miss out on alimony and child support because she failed to live up to her duties as a wife. As a matter of fact, she can take half or more and leave with the kids any dam time she feels like it. Please, I want to understand, please explain why you think taking a note to her is going to do anything but tip her off and blow things up.
Why not just take the mistress, see how long you can drag it out and when you get busted, then you can move on to court. So what, the judge may ding you with one less day a month or 5% more of the total money they would normally have allocated. Is that one less day or that extra 5% really going to sting that much more? I sincerely doubt it.