"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Can only lead a horse to water.... some are so stubborn they think its everyone else but them.... but if they look around the common denominator in all their problems is themselves.. so they refuse to accept responsibility and blame their unhappiness on everyone else.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Not necessarily true on the wife will mirror him. She could be hell bent upon controlling him or not allowing him to influence her.
She will mirror.
Husband displays exceptional leadership skills = wife will mirror by being an empowered follower to further embark on greater things.
Husband displays lack of leadership skills = wife will mirror as you suggested:
Leadership = control?
Ur delusions has been getting from bad to worse.
But we all know you're obsessed with wanting women to lead you.
Since it's not their natural inclinations, they all turned BPD or crazy after being basically forced into that position by ur rudderless leadership.
And now you know why ALL your ex ended up being BPD or NPD or some crazy shiet term you conveniently invented to cover up ur femininity.
But you'd still be blaming women forever....its never you right?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Well there we go.....
You can not make her lust after you by talking. Action is all that works...get moving.
Leadership is abt empowerment and not abt control.
How you think will influence how you do things, I've said this on here more the enough.
And that's how I know you're never properly lead any of ur relationships.
Do you finally understand the difference between us?