picard
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why do TV daytime sitcom producers have male characters with long hair like fabio? Do women like this kind of style ? These guys have long hair that aren't tied at the back. 
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What's with long hair guys in TV shows?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
The truth is that they actually like them to look like Gandalf not Fabio, but long hair is definitely the common factor. It evokes primal responses. If you doubt what I am saying then I think you should consider Viggo Mortensen with a crew cut as opposed to the longer style, and you will see what I mean.
Sorry to have to break this to you Picard, but nobody else had the heart to respond to your post.
Sorry to have to break this to you Picard, but nobody else had the heart to respond to your post.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
Speaking as a former long hair, I can tell you this, I never pulled more tail than when I had blonde hair down to my ass. It's how I met my wife actually.
That is all citizen.
That is all citizen.
legolas
Master Don Juan
What's with you watching daytime soaps? :crackup: unless of course you want to pick up dressing tips for guys.
picard
Master Don Juan
hey, I was sick for several days hence I watch TV at home. I saw these TV soap shows that had guys dress like Fabio. WTF ? Every show had every guy dress in same style including the doctor.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
brucevangeorge
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Its the next step to completing the feminization process.
Beware.
Beware.
comic_relief
Master Don Juan
only daytime soap a man should be allowed to watch is the show "Passions" that show used to have warlocks, witches, and an evil baby along with evil spells and potions. A friggen womanizer and an insane woman that has an axe.
That show is the only daytime soap that I ever enjoyed watching because of its humorous side to it. I was forced to watch soaps with my mom for being a bad kid until I was nine. I was a very bad kid back then too.
comic_relief
That show is the only daytime soap that I ever enjoyed watching because of its humorous side to it. I was forced to watch soaps with my mom for being a bad kid until I was nine. I was a very bad kid back then too.
comic_relief
Fvck you dude... like Fabio's the only dude that ever had long hair, just like Telly Savalis was the only dude that ever had a shaved head... LOL!picard said:why do TV daytime sitcom producers have male characters with long hair like fabio? Do women like this kind of style ? These guys have long hair that aren't tied at the back.
I've got long hair and I get that stupid sh1t, "Are you like [insert whatever lame celebrity with long hair has the highest visability]?" I've had long hair since highschool... if you're going to associate it with something, think heavy metal (Dark Tranquillity, Opeth, etc.). Just stop it with the LAME associations losers.
diplomatic_lies
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Actually when I see someone with long hair, I think they're either goths, or druggies.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That's what most people think.diplomatic_lies said:
So if your cool with either assosation then who cares.
If you want chicks, just keep your hair cut. Not saying it needs to be cut short short short, it doesn't. But when it gets to the point of needing to be tied back or whatever, that is a turn off to girls. Most anyways - Female Goths and Druggies are still around.
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Thats a bunch of bull**** too. It depends on the chick. Women who dig long hair don't always fall in a certain stereotype. Its really shortsighted to say "only goth women like guys with long hair" or "only hippie chicks". I've had positive comments on my hair from several different kinds of women- both times I had it long(now and back in High school).Bvbidd said:
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I'm growing my hair out. It's rather long now, 4-5 inches. Not long enough for a ponytail, so I sometimes wear a headband to keep it out of my eyes.
All the girls I know look at pictures of me with short hair and tell me they wish I'd cut my hair. When they do this, I just think of Mystery, whose hair is beyond shoulder-length. Mystery appears to do okay with girls with long hair, so I will too.
All the girls I know look at pictures of me with short hair and tell me they wish I'd cut my hair. When they do this, I just think of Mystery, whose hair is beyond shoulder-length. Mystery appears to do okay with girls with long hair, so I will too
."Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
doctoroxygen
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Medium-length hair blow-dried straight up so it's tall and huge and aggressive. I used to wear my hair like that, with astonishing results, but the funny thing about hair is that it just keeps growing.
Exactly. My girlfriend is one of the most innocent girls in the world, not hippie, goth or other stereotypes, she was virgin at 16 when I met her, but she fell in love with me right because I had longhair. Since I cut it, she says that she doesn't like me physically that much and that I should grow it out again.manbearpig said:
Also, the vast majority of highschoolers that "get it" here have long-hair.
diplomatic_lies
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Real men get mullets! Just ask any redneck.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.