“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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What's with long hair guys in TV shows?

picard

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why do TV daytime sitcom producers have male characters with long hair like fabio? Do women like this kind of style ? These guys have long hair that aren't tied at the back. :confused:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The truth is that they actually like them to look like Gandalf not Fabio, but long hair is definitely the common factor. It evokes primal responses. If you doubt what I am saying then I think you should consider Viggo Mortensen with a crew cut as opposed to the longer style, and you will see what I mean.

Sorry to have to break this to you Picard, but nobody else had the heart to respond to your post.
 

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Speaking as a former long hair, I can tell you this, I never pulled more tail than when I had blonde hair down to my ass. It's how I met my wife actually.


That is all citizen.
 

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hey, I was sick for several days hence I watch TV at home. I saw these TV soap shows that had guys dress like Fabio. WTF ? Every show had every guy dress in same style including the doctor.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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only daytime soap a man should be allowed to watch is the show "Passions" that show used to have warlocks, witches, and an evil baby along with evil spells and potions. A friggen womanizer and an insane woman that has an axe.

That show is the only daytime soap that I ever enjoyed watching because of its humorous side to it. I was forced to watch soaps with my mom for being a bad kid until I was nine. I was a very bad kid back then too.

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picard said:
why do TV daytime sitcom producers have male characters with long hair like fabio? Do women like this kind of style ? These guys have long hair that aren't tied at the back. :confused:
Fvck you dude... like Fabio's the only dude that ever had long hair, just like Telly Savalis was the only dude that ever had a shaved head... LOL!

I've got long hair and I get that stupid sh1t, "Are you like [insert whatever lame celebrity with long hair has the highest visability]?" I've had long hair since highschool... if you're going to associate it with something, think heavy metal (Dark Tranquillity, Opeth, etc.). Just stop it with the LAME associations losers. :down:
 

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Actually when I see someone with long hair, I think they're either goths, or druggies.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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diplomatic_lies said:
Actually when I see someone with long hair, I think they're either goths, or druggies.
That's what most people think.

So if your cool with either assosation then who cares.

If you want chicks, just keep your hair cut. Not saying it needs to be cut short short short, it doesn't. But when it gets to the point of needing to be tied back or whatever, that is a turn off to girls. Most anyways - Female Goths and Druggies are still around.
 

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U mean that 90s bob haircut, like leonardo DiCaprio and Jonathan Brandis had.
 

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Bvbidd said:
If you want chicks, just keep your hair cut. Not saying it needs to be cut short short short, it doesn't. But when it gets to the point of needing to be tied back or whatever, that is a turn off to girls. Most anyways - Female Goths and Druggies are still around.
Thats a bunch of bull**** too. It depends on the chick. Women who dig long hair don't always fall in a certain stereotype. Its really shortsighted to say "only goth women like guys with long hair" or "only hippie chicks". I've had positive comments on my hair from several different kinds of women- both times I had it long(now and back in High school).
 

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I'm growing my hair out. It's rather long now, 4-5 inches. Not long enough for a ponytail, so I sometimes wear a headband to keep it out of my eyes.

All the girls I know look at pictures of me with short hair and tell me they wish I'd cut my hair. When they do this, I just think of Mystery, whose hair is beyond shoulder-length. Mystery appears to do okay with girls with long hair, so I will too :).
 

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Long hair is sexy; tall hair is the fúcking sexiest thing a man can do to his head. Ask any girl. Short hair is for sheep!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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seanchai said:
Long hair is sexy; tall hair is the fúcking sexiest thing a man can do to his head. Ask any girl. Short hair is for sheep!
What the heck is tall hair?:confused:
 

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Medium-length hair blow-dried straight up so it's tall and huge and aggressive. I used to wear my hair like that, with astonishing results, but the funny thing about hair is that it just keeps growing.
 

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doctoroxygen said:
Medium-length hair blow-dried straight up so it's tall and huge and aggressive. I used to wear my hair like that, with astonishing results, but the funny thing about hair is that it just keeps growing.
Have you got any pics of you or someone else who sports that look? I'm pretty curious, since I have not really understood what you mean
 

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manbearpig said:
Thats a bunch of bull**** too. It depends on the chick. Women who dig long hair don't always fall in a certain stereotype. Its really shortsighted to say "only goth women like guys with long hair" or "only hippie chicks". I've had positive comments on my hair from several different kinds of women- both times I had it long(now and back in High school).
Exactly. My girlfriend is one of the most innocent girls in the world, not hippie, goth or other stereotypes, she was virgin at 16 when I met her, but she fell in love with me right because I had longhair. Since I cut it, she says that she doesn't like me physically that much and that I should grow it out again.

Also, the vast majority of highschoolers that "get it" here have long-hair.
 

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Real men get mullets! Just ask any redneck.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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