That's because you're a fvcking retard and need a boot the the fvcking face. :trouble: You think all black people are gang-bangers too?diplomatic_lies said:Actually when I see someone with long hair, I think they're either goths, or druggies.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
That's because you're a fvcking retard and need a boot the the fvcking face. :trouble: You think all black people are gang-bangers too?diplomatic_lies said:Actually when I see someone with long hair, I think they're either goths, or druggies.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bvbidd said:If you want chicks, just keep your hair cut. Not saying it needs to be cut short short short, it doesn't. But when it gets to the point of needing to be tied back or whatever, that is a turn off to girls. Most anyways - Female Goths and Druggies are still around.
Nice point. Actually, I noticed a pattern in longhairs. Highschool freshmen and sophomores with longhair are usually the ****y guys who girls lust after. In junior and senior year, even some uncool or unknown guys grow out their hair thinking they will become beautiful all of a sudden. These guys usually become losers or outcasts in their 20s and decide not to give a shìt about the world laughing at them, while the cool guys have cut their hair, in order not to be associated with them outcasts.Archaxis said:Dude, based on what... your own lame bigoted perception? A well, presented, good looking guy with long hair has just as much of a chance of pulling a girl as as one with short hair. If Johnny Depp walks in with long locks (in fact, many, many male celebrities have had long hair at one point or another and they didn't become ugly), HB is still going lick her lips. Maybe the long haired guys you know are all ugly, dirtbags our clique-kids, but a friggen' girl sees the difference between someone like that and someone like myself who isn't. There are just as many goths and druggies (more actually) with short hair. You know who they are by other things than the length of their hair.
In my humble (and long haired) opinon, it's going to be like ANYTHING else (like, say, SHORT HAIR, for that matter) and there's going to be a million different reasons for a million different people. They'll fall into JUST as many categories as short hair: It might be for rebellion, conformity, beutification, trendy style, personal statement, etc., etc., etc. or a variety of reasons at once. One person, like myself, might keep it long, simple, clean and trimmed, like any simple, classic, suave SHORT haircut as my personality reflects that to a certain degree... someone else might have a long dreadlock style haircut that might parallel a short, rebellious crop with dyed spikes, or whatnot.Adone said:Nice point. Actually, I noticed a pattern in longhairs. Highschool freshmen and sophomores with longhair are usually the ****y guys who girls lust after. In junior and senior year, even some uncool or unknown guys grow out their hair thinking they will become beautiful all of a sudden. These guys usually become losers or outcasts in their 20s and decide not to give a shìt about the world laughing at them, while the cool guys have cut their hair, in order not to be associated with them outcasts.
Only some guys who do pretty well with ladies and don't give a shìt about who associates who with who, keep their hair long or grow it out after high school and still do pretty good with ladies.
Just my sociology 2c
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Dude, thanks for the praise... I pretty much do the respectful, charaismatic alpha kind of thing. I speak my mind, try not to unnecessarily demean others, and take no one's B.S. and downtalking in general. That pic is from about 8-months back, I actually have a goatee now. It seems to work with the look, and I like it. It's just a pain to keep trimmed, as I'm a bit of a perfectionist.doctoroxygen said:Archaxis, you are one good-looking cat. Your appearance indicates you are subordinate and obedient to no man. Have you thought about growing a beard?
Archaxis said:That's because you're a fvcking retard and need a boot the the fvcking face. You think all black people are gang-bangers too?
:crackup:Archaxis said:I pretty much do the respectful, charaismatic alpha kind of thing.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
diplomatic_lies said::crackup:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
grr said:For the record I've never known a guy worth mentioning who had long hair and didn't eventually go short.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.