picard
Master Don Juan
why do TV daytime sitcom producers have male characters with long hair like fabio? Do women like this kind of style ? These guys have long hair that aren't tied at the back. 
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Fvck you dude... like Fabio's the only dude that ever had long hair, just like Telly Savalis was the only dude that ever had a shaved head... LOL!picard said:why do TV daytime sitcom producers have male characters with long hair like fabio? Do women like this kind of style ? These guys have long hair that aren't tied at the back.![]()
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That's what most people think.diplomatic_lies said:Actually when I see someone with long hair, I think they're either goths, or druggies.
Thats a bunch of bull**** too. It depends on the chick. Women who dig long hair don't always fall in a certain stereotype. Its really shortsighted to say "only goth women like guys with long hair" or "only hippie chicks". I've had positive comments on my hair from several different kinds of women- both times I had it long(now and back in High school).Bvbidd said:If you want chicks, just keep your hair cut. Not saying it needs to be cut short short short, it doesn't. But when it gets to the point of needing to be tied back or whatever, that is a turn off to girls. Most anyways - Female Goths and Druggies are still around.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
What the heck is tall hair?seanchai said:Long hair is sexy; tall hair is the fúcking sexiest thing a man can do to his head. Ask any girl. Short hair is for sheep!
Have you got any pics of you or someone else who sports that look? I'm pretty curious, since I have not really understood what you meandoctoroxygen said:Medium-length hair blow-dried straight up so it's tall and huge and aggressive. I used to wear my hair like that, with astonishing results, but the funny thing about hair is that it just keeps growing.
Exactly. My girlfriend is one of the most innocent girls in the world, not hippie, goth or other stereotypes, she was virgin at 16 when I met her, but she fell in love with me right because I had longhair. Since I cut it, she says that she doesn't like me physically that much and that I should grow it out again.manbearpig said:Thats a bunch of bull**** too. It depends on the chick. Women who dig long hair don't always fall in a certain stereotype. Its really shortsighted to say "only goth women like guys with long hair" or "only hippie chicks". I've had positive comments on my hair from several different kinds of women- both times I had it long(now and back in High school).
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.