"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What's with long hair guys in TV shows?

picard

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why do TV daytime sitcom producers have male characters with long hair like fabio? Do women like this kind of style ? These guys have long hair that aren't tied at the back. :confused:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The truth is that they actually like them to look like Gandalf not Fabio, but long hair is definitely the common factor. It evokes primal responses. If you doubt what I am saying then I think you should consider Viggo Mortensen with a crew cut as opposed to the longer style, and you will see what I mean.

Sorry to have to break this to you Picard, but nobody else had the heart to respond to your post.
 

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Speaking as a former long hair, I can tell you this, I never pulled more tail than when I had blonde hair down to my ass. It's how I met my wife actually.


That is all citizen.
 

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hey, I was sick for several days hence I watch TV at home. I saw these TV soap shows that had guys dress like Fabio. WTF ? Every show had every guy dress in same style including the doctor.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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only daytime soap a man should be allowed to watch is the show "Passions" that show used to have warlocks, witches, and an evil baby along with evil spells and potions. A friggen womanizer and an insane woman that has an axe.

That show is the only daytime soap that I ever enjoyed watching because of its humorous side to it. I was forced to watch soaps with my mom for being a bad kid until I was nine. I was a very bad kid back then too.

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picard said:
why do TV daytime sitcom producers have male characters with long hair like fabio? Do women like this kind of style ? These guys have long hair that aren't tied at the back. :confused:
Fvck you dude... like Fabio's the only dude that ever had long hair, just like Telly Savalis was the only dude that ever had a shaved head... LOL!

I've got long hair and I get that stupid sh1t, "Are you like [insert whatever lame celebrity with long hair has the highest visability]?" I've had long hair since highschool... if you're going to associate it with something, think heavy metal (Dark Tranquillity, Opeth, etc.). Just stop it with the LAME associations losers. :down:
 

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Actually when I see someone with long hair, I think they're either goths, or druggies.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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diplomatic_lies said:
Actually when I see someone with long hair, I think they're either goths, or druggies.
That's what most people think.

So if your cool with either assosation then who cares.

If you want chicks, just keep your hair cut. Not saying it needs to be cut short short short, it doesn't. But when it gets to the point of needing to be tied back or whatever, that is a turn off to girls. Most anyways - Female Goths and Druggies are still around.
 

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U mean that 90s bob haircut, like leonardo DiCaprio and Jonathan Brandis had.
 

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Bvbidd said:
If you want chicks, just keep your hair cut. Not saying it needs to be cut short short short, it doesn't. But when it gets to the point of needing to be tied back or whatever, that is a turn off to girls. Most anyways - Female Goths and Druggies are still around.
Thats a bunch of bull**** too. It depends on the chick. Women who dig long hair don't always fall in a certain stereotype. Its really shortsighted to say "only goth women like guys with long hair" or "only hippie chicks". I've had positive comments on my hair from several different kinds of women- both times I had it long(now and back in High school).
 

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I'm growing my hair out. It's rather long now, 4-5 inches. Not long enough for a ponytail, so I sometimes wear a headband to keep it out of my eyes.

All the girls I know look at pictures of me with short hair and tell me they wish I'd cut my hair. When they do this, I just think of Mystery, whose hair is beyond shoulder-length. Mystery appears to do okay with girls with long hair, so I will too :).
 

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Long hair is sexy; tall hair is the fúcking sexiest thing a man can do to his head. Ask any girl. Short hair is for sheep!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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seanchai said:
Long hair is sexy; tall hair is the fúcking sexiest thing a man can do to his head. Ask any girl. Short hair is for sheep!
What the heck is tall hair?:confused:
 

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Medium-length hair blow-dried straight up so it's tall and huge and aggressive. I used to wear my hair like that, with astonishing results, but the funny thing about hair is that it just keeps growing.
 

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doctoroxygen said:
Medium-length hair blow-dried straight up so it's tall and huge and aggressive. I used to wear my hair like that, with astonishing results, but the funny thing about hair is that it just keeps growing.
Have you got any pics of you or someone else who sports that look? I'm pretty curious, since I have not really understood what you mean
 

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manbearpig said:
Thats a bunch of bull**** too. It depends on the chick. Women who dig long hair don't always fall in a certain stereotype. Its really shortsighted to say "only goth women like guys with long hair" or "only hippie chicks". I've had positive comments on my hair from several different kinds of women- both times I had it long(now and back in High school).
Exactly. My girlfriend is one of the most innocent girls in the world, not hippie, goth or other stereotypes, she was virgin at 16 when I met her, but she fell in love with me right because I had longhair. Since I cut it, she says that she doesn't like me physically that much and that I should grow it out again.

Also, the vast majority of highschoolers that "get it" here have long-hair.
 

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Real men get mullets! Just ask any redneck.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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