Player_Supreme
Banned
I just looked at the list of mods and I no longer see Survivors name anywhere on the forum.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
LOL, it's a shame cause he was to my knowledge the only black moderator on this site.Originally posted by Titus
I guess his survival time ran out.
Way off.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
LOL, it's a shame cause he was to my knowledge the only black moderator on this site.
Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.Originally posted by Eternal
Way off.
Survivor actually stepped down. He had other things in his life going on.
There are other black moderators on here.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
For someone who complains about racism as much as you. You sure place a lot of empasis on race.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.
Of other types? What does that mean? Ashlee, Matrix (Antichrist) and I believe (correct me if I am wrong guys) that either prosemont and/or Paradox is black.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.
Well let me pull your coat for ya:Originally posted by Eternal
Of other types? What does that mean? Ashlee, Matrix (Antichrist) and I believe (correct me if I am wrong guys) that either prosemont and/or Paradox is black.
*Shrugs* Then again, I don't know too much.
In a perfect world that would be a wonderful idea!Originally posted by Vincent
For someone who complains about racism as much as you. You sure place a lot of empasis on race.
Maybe to prevent racism we shouldn't consider people "black" or "white" at all. We're all just people.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Then quit harping about who is and is not of a particular race.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
In a perfect world that would be a wonderful idea!
That's funny because I always make sure to identify myself as a caucacian as often as possible.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Prosemont never identified himself as a brutha in our communications...nor has any of the others except Ashlee as I mentioned.
Originally posted by StepItUpAnotch
I'm not black eithernow what you got to say about me!! Lets just all drink some tea and have a tea party!!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
That's funny because I always make sure to identify myself as a caucacian as often as possible.
LOL!! Don't forget the Italians. I feel left out. >> you didn't mention the Italians >> therefore, you're racist!Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
I think we need an Asian moderator. And also a Slovak moderator too. And also a Czech and South German moderator. Oh, and having an Arab mod would also be nice. I demand equal representation!