Player_Supreme
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I just looked at the list of mods and I no longer see Survivors name anywhere on the forum.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What happened to Survivor?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Player_Supreme
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LOL, it's a shame cause he was to my knowledge the only black moderator on this site.
Player_Supreme
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Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Giovanni Casanova
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I'm not sure if this is Feedback, or Anything Else, or what, but I know what it ain't -- and that's Mature Man. So off to Anything Else it goes.
Player_Supreme
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Well let me pull your coat for ya:
Well let's see by other types are there are mixed ones who don't identify with one half...there nonmixed ones who don't identify with whom they are...and the list goes on and on.
Prosemont never identified himself as a brutha in our communications...nor has any of the others except Ashlee as I mentioned.
There is a new type of bruthas out there who do not aknowledge themselves to other brutha's like we did in the old days.
Player_Supreme
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In a perfect world that would be a wonderful idea!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Giovanni Casanova
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Then quit harping about who is and is not of a particular race.
That will go a long way toward making the world more perfect.
Giovanni Casanova
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That's funny because I always make sure to identify myself as a caucacian as often as possible.
StepItUpAnotch
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I'm not black either 
now what you got to say about me!! Lets just all drink some tea and have a tea party!!
now what you got to say about me!! Lets just all drink some tea and have a tea party!!TyTe`EyEs
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I'm not black either
Let me get back to you on that. *Adds to list of girls he'll never reply to*
diplomatic_lie
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I think we need an Asian moderator. And also a Slovak moderator too. And also a Czech and South German moderator. Oh, and having an Arab mod would also be nice. I demand equal representation!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
m4a1
Senior Don Juan
LOL!! Don't forget the Italians. I feel left out. >> you didn't mention the Italians >> therefore, you're racist!
Player_Supreme,
The Brutha community!! POWER 2 THE PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!!!ONE!1ONE!!TWO!!! N1ggaz unite!!!! PANTHER POWER!!
Lots of my friends are black so I'm not racist, from the outside I'm white, but on the inside I'm 100% brutha. I'm like an African suffering from the albino disease, so we can be homies, ok?
On a serious note:
Go back to pimphop.com! I don't think a single cracka hangs out there, it's a brutha commmunity, we need a white community here without people like you. Yeah once in a while we choose a black moderator to seem non-racist, but little do you know of our true intentions...
<warning: lots of sarcasm above>
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