Player_Supreme
Banned
I just looked at the list of mods and I no longer see Survivors name anywhere on the forum.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LOL, it's a shame cause he was to my knowledge the only black moderator on this site.Originally posted by Titus
I guess his survival time ran out.
Way off.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
LOL, it's a shame cause he was to my knowledge the only black moderator on this site.
Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.Originally posted by Eternal
Way off.
Survivor actually stepped down. He had other things in his life going on.
There are other black moderators on here.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
For someone who complains about racism as much as you. You sure place a lot of empasis on race.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.
Of other types? What does that mean? Ashlee, Matrix (Antichrist) and I believe (correct me if I am wrong guys) that either prosemont and/or Paradox is black.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.
Well let me pull your coat for ya:Originally posted by Eternal
Of other types? What does that mean? Ashlee, Matrix (Antichrist) and I believe (correct me if I am wrong guys) that either prosemont and/or Paradox is black.
*Shrugs* Then again, I don't know too much.
In a perfect world that would be a wonderful idea!Originally posted by Vincent
For someone who complains about racism as much as you. You sure place a lot of empasis on race.
Maybe to prevent racism we shouldn't consider people "black" or "white" at all. We're all just people.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Then quit harping about who is and is not of a particular race.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
In a perfect world that would be a wonderful idea!
That's funny because I always make sure to identify myself as a caucacian as often as possible.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Prosemont never identified himself as a brutha in our communications...nor has any of the others except Ashlee as I mentioned.
Originally posted by StepItUpAnotch
I'm not black eithernow what you got to say about me!! Lets just all drink some tea and have a tea party!!
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
That's funny because I always make sure to identify myself as a caucacian as often as possible.
LOL!! Don't forget the Italians. I feel left out. >> you didn't mention the Italians >> therefore, you're racist!Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
I think we need an Asian moderator. And also a Slovak moderator too. And also a Czech and South German moderator. Oh, and having an Arab mod would also be nice. I demand equal representation!