Player_Supreme
Banned
I just looked at the list of mods and I no longer see Survivors name anywhere on the forum.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
LOL, it's a shame cause he was to my knowledge the only black moderator on this site.Originally posted by Titus
I guess his survival time ran out.
Way off.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
LOL, it's a shame cause he was to my knowledge the only black moderator on this site.
Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.Originally posted by Eternal
Way off.
Survivor actually stepped down. He had other things in his life going on.
There are other black moderators on here.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
For someone who complains about racism as much as you. You sure place a lot of empasis on race.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.
Of other types? What does that mean? Ashlee, Matrix (Antichrist) and I believe (correct me if I am wrong guys) that either prosemont and/or Paradox is black.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.
Well let me pull your coat for ya:Originally posted by Eternal
Of other types? What does that mean? Ashlee, Matrix (Antichrist) and I believe (correct me if I am wrong guys) that either prosemont and/or Paradox is black.
*Shrugs* Then again, I don't know too much.
In a perfect world that would be a wonderful idea!Originally posted by Vincent
For someone who complains about racism as much as you. You sure place a lot of empasis on race.
Maybe to prevent racism we shouldn't consider people "black" or "white" at all. We're all just people.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Then quit harping about who is and is not of a particular race.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
In a perfect world that would be a wonderful idea!
That's funny because I always make sure to identify myself as a caucacian as often as possible.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Prosemont never identified himself as a brutha in our communications...nor has any of the others except Ashlee as I mentioned.
Originally posted by StepItUpAnotch
I'm not black eithernow what you got to say about me!! Lets just all drink some tea and have a tea party!!
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
That's funny because I always make sure to identify myself as a caucacian as often as possible.
LOL!! Don't forget the Italians. I feel left out. >> you didn't mention the Italians >> therefore, you're racist!Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
I think we need an Asian moderator. And also a Slovak moderator too. And also a Czech and South German moderator. Oh, and having an Arab mod would also be nice. I demand equal representation!