Player_Supreme
Banned
I just looked at the list of mods and I no longer see Survivors name anywhere on the forum.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
LOL, it's a shame cause he was to my knowledge the only black moderator on this site.Originally posted by Titus
I guess his survival time ran out.
Way off.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
LOL, it's a shame cause he was to my knowledge the only black moderator on this site.
Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.Originally posted by Eternal
Way off.
Survivor actually stepped down. He had other things in his life going on.
There are other black moderators on here.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
For someone who complains about racism as much as you. You sure place a lot of empasis on race.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.
Of other types? What does that mean? Ashlee, Matrix (Antichrist) and I believe (correct me if I am wrong guys) that either prosemont and/or Paradox is black.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.
Well let me pull your coat for ya:Originally posted by Eternal
Of other types? What does that mean? Ashlee, Matrix (Antichrist) and I believe (correct me if I am wrong guys) that either prosemont and/or Paradox is black.
*Shrugs* Then again, I don't know too much.
In a perfect world that would be a wonderful idea!Originally posted by Vincent
For someone who complains about racism as much as you. You sure place a lot of empasis on race.
Maybe to prevent racism we shouldn't consider people "black" or "white" at all. We're all just people.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Then quit harping about who is and is not of a particular race.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
In a perfect world that would be a wonderful idea!
That's funny because I always make sure to identify myself as a caucacian as often as possible.Originally posted by Player_Supreme
Prosemont never identified himself as a brutha in our communications...nor has any of the others except Ashlee as I mentioned.
Originally posted by StepItUpAnotch
I'm not black eithernow what you got to say about me!! Lets just all drink some tea and have a tea party!!
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
That's funny because I always make sure to identify myself as a caucacian as often as possible.
LOL!! Don't forget the Italians. I feel left out. >> you didn't mention the Italians >> therefore, you're racist!Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
I think we need an Asian moderator. And also a Slovak moderator too. And also a Czech and South German moderator. Oh, and having an Arab mod would also be nice. I demand equal representation!