Player_Supreme
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I just looked at the list of mods and I no longer see Survivors name anywhere on the forum.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
What happened to Survivor?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Player_Supreme
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LOL, it's a shame cause he was to my knowledge the only black moderator on this site.
Player_Supreme
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Let me say it again. He was the only "black" moderator that I knew of on here. If there are others they must be one of those other types cause they sure haven't made their presence known as being of color. Except for Ashley Chuckles of course.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Giovanni Casanova
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I'm not sure if this is Feedback, or Anything Else, or what, but I know what it ain't -- and that's Mature Man. So off to Anything Else it goes.
Player_Supreme
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Well let me pull your coat for ya:
Well let's see by other types are there are mixed ones who don't identify with one half...there nonmixed ones who don't identify with whom they are...and the list goes on and on.
Prosemont never identified himself as a brutha in our communications...nor has any of the others except Ashlee as I mentioned.
There is a new type of bruthas out there who do not aknowledge themselves to other brutha's like we did in the old days.
Player_Supreme
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In a perfect world that would be a wonderful idea!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Giovanni Casanova
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Then quit harping about who is and is not of a particular race.
That will go a long way toward making the world more perfect.
Giovanni Casanova
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That's funny because I always make sure to identify myself as a caucacian as often as possible.
StepItUpAnotch
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I'm not black either 
now what you got to say about me!! Lets just all drink some tea and have a tea party!!
now what you got to say about me!! Lets just all drink some tea and have a tea party!!TyTe`EyEs
Master Don Juan
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I'm not black either
Let me get back to you on that. *Adds to list of girls he'll never reply to*
diplomatic_lie
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I think we need an Asian moderator. And also a Slovak moderator too. And also a Czech and South German moderator. Oh, and having an Arab mod would also be nice. I demand equal representation!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
m4a1
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LOL!! Don't forget the Italians. I feel left out. >> you didn't mention the Italians >> therefore, you're racist!
Player_Supreme,
The Brutha community!! POWER 2 THE PEOPLE!!!!!!!!!!!!ONE!1ONE!!TWO!!! N1ggaz unite!!!! PANTHER POWER!!
Lots of my friends are black so I'm not racist, from the outside I'm white, but on the inside I'm 100% brutha. I'm like an African suffering from the albino disease, so we can be homies, ok?
On a serious note:
Go back to pimphop.com! I don't think a single cracka hangs out there, it's a brutha commmunity, we need a white community here without people like you. Yeah once in a while we choose a black moderator to seem non-racist, but little do you know of our true intentions...
<warning: lots of sarcasm above>
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